[takiya123456789]

I am 16 years old... and ther's this boy that lives around the hall from me in my building. He's 16 too... he's my boyfriend and we've been going out for about 4 years... I finally had sexy with him about 4 weeks ago.. he was my first... I felt soooo scared and nervous after I got finished... and that's because he forced me... I really didn't want to, but he got me to o it with him... he nut inside me, but he had on a condom... the condom was not broken... but I'm still scared that I might be preganat because I was suppose to get my period today, and I didn't... and I don't want to tell my aunt about it because she's going to betray me, and not trust me anymore... she's also the type of woman that will problbly throw me in front of a moving truck, if she hears that I'm having sex... please help me and let me know if I'm preganat... I prayed to god several times, to see if he would give me a second chance... and I'm still waiting on a response... and will the pharmacy let me buy a pregancy test?. please please help me... im desperate and if I fiind out that I'm not preganat, I swear that I won't have sex no more until I'm at least 20 years old...

[Alty]

If he forced you then that's rape and you need to report him to the police.

As for being pregnant, we can't diagnose you over the internet. Wait another week and if your period doesn't come then get a home pregnancy test, yes, they will let you buy one at the pharmacy.

Good luck.

[Fr_Chuck]

Ok, can you be pregnant, yes you could be,
Now most likely you are not. But condoms even when they don't "break" are not always 100 percent effective. So it is basically wait and see now. It is too early for a test, but yes you can buy them at a grocrey store, a drug store, walmart,

[tsalagi7]

Sweetheart NO MEANS NO, if you were forced you were RAPED! If talking to your aunt doesn't help talk to a counseler at school,you definitely need someone in your corner and remember condoms are never 100%. I wish you luck and I hope all works out for the best

[DoulaLC]

Did he actually force you or just talk you into it? That is a big difference with regard to the law. If you allowed yourself to get talked into it, good that you realize it wasn't the right time for you and that you have made the decision to wait. You are the one who can become pregnant, you are the one who would be changing your life and taking care of a baby at a young age... he could simply walk away if he wanted to, so you need to take care of yourself and stand up for yourself. Definitely let him know that it won't be happening again anytime soon and if he says he'll leave you, so be it... you will know that he cares more about himself than he does about you. You deserve respect and you want a guy who agrees with that.
Odds are you aren't pregnant, but you will have to just wait and see. Give it several more days to see if your period is just late and try a test if it still doesn't show up. Wish you well.