[oldflame]

It's been 20years. Always loved this man and have never stopped thinking about him. Met again at 20 year reunion and can not help but emailimg with him back and forth. Feelings are brewing again between us but the thing is we are both married. We both travel a lot for our jobs and go to some of the same towns and are talking about getting together. Not really as a date but getting together but can tell it is going to go further. I really am still in love with this man and I am sure he is having the same feelings. HELP! I need to see him again. How can I tell him that I still love but that we need to work slow to see if this is what we really want?

[lmangileri]

Don't do it! You are both married. You shouldn't even be talking to him unless you guys are both on the verge of divorce in which case you still shouldn't meet up with him until divorce is final.

[talaniman]

Why go through all that extra romance, and talking, and stuff. If you are going to cheat, just get to the nasty, and don't piddle around, with the other stuff. You act like a lovesick teeny bopper, instead of a lying, cheating, lowdown, dirty, housewife.

[Fr_Chuck]

No the last thing you need to do is "see him" The past is fun to think about but you have a husband that you owe a lot to.
Would you want the husband to be running off meeting a old love from his past??

You block his email address, you tell him sorry it was a mistake and you don't ever meet back up with them

[jjwoodhull]

You might think it's love but it's just nostalgia. You don't even know him after 20 years. Do not let infatuation destroy your life.