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    #641

    Sep 7, 2008, 12:10 PM
    You need to start thinking like that HC, remember what he became, not what he was. He's a disturbed person and you don't need that in your life, especially now that things are going so well for you.

    Leave the past behind you dear, look ahead into the future. Stick to No contact, leave him alone, he doesn't deserve any contact with you and giving him even a word or two will only start everything up again. That's what my gut tells me, and I always listen to my gut.

    You know we're here for you whenever you need us. I know it's hard to take your own advice, so take ours, your head knows the right thing to do, so listen to it. Don't change your forgiving kind caring heart, but realize that it's not always right. If it feels wrong, then it is.

    The fact that you asked, well, that shows that you know what to do. You just needed confirmation, but you already know the path to take. So, I'm pushing you down the right path my dear, now walk! :)
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    #642

    Sep 7, 2008, 12:11 PM
    HC, having had death threats on my children, our house set on fire and my daughter's car blown up in my driveway at 5:00 in the morning and having received numerous theats on the phone by a stalker, one learns to "think that way", to survive. One has to sort of try to think the way a sick controlling mind does in order to calculate what might be coming next. We went through two years of this. This guy never did the same thing twice! Kept my mind churning, trying to keep the kids alive and me also. When he quit with the kids, he started on me. He had family in the political arena and family on the force and when they "lost" our evidence out of the evidence room with finger prints on it on one part of the death threats, the Chief of Police said, "We lost your evidence so sue us!" Too much for me to share here but just be safe and I hope you never have to "learn how to think the way" these types of people do. It takes so much innocence and trust away from us. PLEASE stay safe... safe guard yourself.. Take all precautions!
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    #643

    Sep 7, 2008, 12:12 PM
    Oh, I hope this isn't beginning again. It really messed with my head.

    Its nice to know that people have stayed strong and gotten through similar experiences... people that you respect and admire. Its good to have your support and concern, Stringer. Thanks.
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    #644

    Sep 7, 2008, 12:15 PM
    All of you... just... thank you. Stringer, BigB, Alty, and Rebby... thank you.

    Yes, Alty, I knew the "Right way"... I just needed my friends to help... Thank you all, for being those friends.
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    #645

    Sep 7, 2008, 12:26 PM
    As always HC... you will make the right decision, you are welcome.
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    #646

    Sep 7, 2008, 01:32 PM
    Good girl HC... you are a smart lady;)
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    #647

    Sep 7, 2008, 01:48 PM
    Ahh

    Back from the gym, first day back after my weeks rest...

    Feels so good :) :D
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    #648

    Sep 7, 2008, 04:05 PM
    Oh Chicky my girl. I didn't see your post until just now! OMG!. I'm so sorry, because I know first hand how you feel, when it happens, and you and all of you guys are always here for me, and I wasn't here. I was off reading the ton and a half of emails I got today, and then I was out with Nik.

    Do you hear a ringing sound? That would be me!

    EDIT: Chicky not home... :(
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    #649

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8
    Oh Chicky my girl. I didn't see your post until just now! OMG!...I'm so sorry, because I know first hand how you feel, when it happens, and you and all of you guys are always here for me, and I wasn't here. I was off reading the ton and a half of emails I got today, and then I was out with Nik.

    Do you hear a ringing sound? That would be me!!

    EDIT: Chicky not home...:(
    Yes, if anyone can give HC advice, it would be you hon... she will see it when she returns..
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    #650

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:07 PM
    Ok... BEARS AND indy on FOX... NOW!!

    All my teams have won so far today, I hope that is an omen...

    Back at half time...

    Stringer
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    #651

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:08 PM
    Evening all...

    How is everyone?
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    #652

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8
    Who let the bats in?? This will not be tolerated by the Queen!! No BATS in this castle! Maybe in the dungeon where the boyz are.....but certainly NOT in my chambers! No way Jose! Eeeeekkkkk!!
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    #653

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:33 PM
    There's a bat in my belfry. :(
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    #654

    Sep 7, 2008, 05:59 PM
    What's wrong with bats??

    At least its not mice, right alty? :)
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    #655

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Whooo let the bats out... eek... eek... whooo let the bats out..!
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    #656

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:19 PM
    And it looks hungry M... very hungry...

    Also doesn't look nice like Batman either... LOOK OUT!! Swooosh...
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    #657

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:20 PM
    Bats are so cool... as long as they don't get close to me, I am OK... ;)
    How are you guys?
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    #658

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:23 PM
    No bats flying around my head please! They can all stay out in the garden and eat the bugs... I have a feeling we have some vampire blood sucking bats here! They bit poor Rebby on the neck! Batman!?
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    #659

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:25 PM
    Awww, poor Rebby.
    Awwww, she doesn't need that crap, who's AZZ do I need to kick??
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    #660

    Sep 7, 2008, 06:29 PM
    Oh boy bad news...

    One of my roommates is breaking up with his girlfriend not entirely by his choice and coming to me for advice... Not a good night here - bring back bad memories
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