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    lax Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 6, 2008, 01:54 PM
    she cheated on me 3 weeks into our relationship
    Me and my girlfriend started dating about a month ago now.. I lost my virginity to her and we are both 19. She came over about a month into our relationship and broke up with me crying so much. She left after telling me all of this crap and called me a little bit later and confessed her love to me, then told me about her cheating on me.

    She cheated on me when she went to this club with her friends in the washroom with some random guy.

    She is a really confused girl though she is pregnant right now she was drunk she is getting an abortion in like a week... She also told me something that nobody else knows just me and her. She has an eating disorder.

    I really do love her and was talking to her friends they said that I should get back together with her. She is an honest person she just really messed up and I think that she deserves another chance. I need input I really love her so much and think that she is so amazing and that she actually wouldn't do it again. But I am so scared that it might happen I couldn't take it..

    She trusts me so much, maybe it was a good thing that it happened so soon it gives us a chance to start over fresh and be a real couple without thinking about that night again but I just can't stop thinking about her doing that to me.. I know that she loves me.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Sep 6, 2008, 03:58 PM
    She has a lot of problems, and you should really give her the time, and space, to handle her issues.

    I can tell you for a fact, she doesn't love you, as how can she, when she doesn't love herself. If you feel the way you do, and are sincere, let her go, for her own sake, as well as yours, as a relationship is the last thing she needs, and you cannot help her.

    Sorry guy, I just hope you give it some thought, and don't just follow your feelings.
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    Sep 6, 2008, 04:12 PM
    Know that once the trust is broken it's hard to get back. Of course she felt wrong about what she did and she should. Now your going question and be weary of her going out with friends and getting drunk because you will be stuck with that "what if" factor. Also, is she pregnant by you? I would sit back and rethink this taking her back thing and weight all the pro and cons about her because like Tal stated she has a lot of issues within herself.

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