[kittu0701]

I have recently broken up my relationship.But I am still intrested to continue the relation but that person is avoiding me.Can you tell me whether I will be able to make up this relation again or will he never turn back to me in life.

[fireandice2007]

No one can truly answer that question. My family and friends used to tell me all the time "if you love someone, let them go... if they return, they are yours forever, if they dont, they were not meant to be" I realize that this does not necessarily answer your question, but it is a good philosophy. Depending on the reasons behind the break up, things could possibly be reconciled, but both parties will need to want to work on that... hopefully I have helped at least a little?

[JBeaucaire]

Since you were the dumper and not the dumpee, yes, there is a strong chance you could lure the guy back. It's mostly a reflection of how healthy a guy he is emotionally.

Don't take this the wrong way, but the more well-centered and healthy he is emotionally, the less likely he would come back after you dumped him. Most people, however, are pretty UNhealthy. So, if he's not all that well-balanced, you should be able to get him back.

But having said all that, I would have to encourage you to rethink the plan. I mean, you are the one pulling the strings and this guy has gotten pulled by you in a pretty extreme way. Pulling him back now would just be... well... I'm sorry, but I just see it as selfish and cruel.

That's my honest feedback.