[LonleyFreak]

I lost my girlfriend last week to someone else after 1 year and 7 months of being faithful she finally had to giv in... I tried to kill myself then whilst in hosppital I wished I had never attempted it but now I just wish I was dead because it feels like no one cares any more for me. I lost my parent when I was 6 in a car accident and I was happy in a fosterhome but I moved because my girlfriend didn't get on with them as much as she wanted to so I moved to redcar 7 weeks ago and now I've lost her I've got no friends and nothing to do all day but cry and wish I was dead its pretty crap... can anyone help me?

[starbuck8]

I'm very sorry that you had to lose your parents at such a young age, and sorry that your girlfriend did this to you. It's horrible that she asked you to leave where you lived, and then left you for someone else. I know that must hurt a lot. Suicide is not a fix for that though. It's permanent, the pain of this doesn't have to be.

Can you call your foster family, and go back with them for a little while? You said it was a good family, so I'm sure they would want to help you. They might be a little angry that you left, but I'm sure that they would understand since you are young.

You are not going to meet any new friends if you go around hanging your head honey. I know it's hard, but try and put on your best face, and go to places you like to go, and be aproachable. Go to the library maybe. I know that sounds lame, but get some self-help books, and try to get some good tips.

You are too young to be thinking this way. It sounds like you've had a hard life, and I am sad for you, but you can turn this around if you put your mind to it.

There really are people out there that care. I do, and I don't even know you! :)

[Credendovidis]

Hello LonleyFreak

I like to help you, but you have to provide more details on yourself and your problems.
May be you can answer some of these questions (but don't feel obliged to do so).

You state that you lost your girlfriend. But not why you lost her.
That reason may be important for answering you here properly.

Why do you say that "she finally had to giv in..."?
Were there problems between you two? What type of problems?

So you tried to kill yourself. Later regretted that, and now you wish again you were dead.
Of course you feel sad because of losing your girlfriend, but life goes on, isn't it?
Most probably you find the girl of your life somewhere else. No reason to die, I would say.
And why do you feel like no one cares any more for you?
May I ask if you ever cared for someone else? How?

You say you have no friends... Any specific reason for that?
Do you find it difficult to communicate with people?

You also state that you have nothing to do all day.
Do you study ? Work? Anything? What do you do for a living?
Please tell a little bit about yourself, to provide an impression of who and what you are !

:)