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    Sep 5, 2008, 04:27 AM
    Urgent decision
    Hi evryone I'm sakeenah from south africa.im 24 years old and have been married for 1year.before marriage we stayed together for 2 and a half years.now I feel like I've made a mistake by getting married and I think I like someone in my past.WHAT MUST I DO
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    Sep 5, 2008, 04:44 AM
    You made marriage vows. Unless your husband is being abusive, you should honour your vows. You need to spend as much time and energy getting out of the marriage if you feel you must, as the energy you put into getting into the relationship with your husband. You might want to look into someone to councel you and your husband.

    Running off with an old flame that you "think you like" will only cause you more problems, and will not work out well for you in the long run. At least have the respect to tell your husband that there are problems in your relationship. You made the decision to marry him, so give him the respect he deserves and tell him if you are thinking about leaving him for another man.

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