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    iowahawkeyess Posts: 32, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 4, 2008, 01:50 PM
    just lost virginity and period 2x in 1 month?
    I had my period about 2 weeks ago and right afterwards I lost my virginity. He wore protection the first 2 or 3 times and them he quit using them. He would pull out before he came. I only bled the 3rd time we had sex but it was just a little and I was sore the next day. Well since then it has hurt having sex and just yesterday I started to bleed again, and it hasn't stopped. Its like my period but way more blood. I have never bled this much before. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I don't think sex feels like it should. I don't know what to think of all this.. I made a doctors appointment but they couldn't get me in for another week. I don't understand what is going on with me. I thought maybe I have a bladder infections to.. I feel like I have to pee, but then I can't. My urine has been very cloudy and a bad smell. This all started after I had sex. Anybody have an idea to what's going on with me? And I'm not looking to be lectured on unprotected sex.
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    Sep 4, 2008, 02:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by iowahawkeyess
    I had my period about 2 weeks ago and right afterwards i lost my virginity. He wore protection the first 2 or 3 times and them he quit using them. He would pull out before he came. I only bled the 3rd time we had sex but it was just a little and i was sore the next day. Well since then it has hurt having sex and just yesterday i started to bleed again, and it hasnt stoped. Its like my period but way more blood. I have never bled this much before. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I don't think sex feels like it should. I don't know what to think of all this.. i made a doctors appointment but they couldnt get me in for another week. I don't understand what is going on with me. I thought maybe I have a bladder infections to.. i feel like i have to pee, but then i can't. My urine has been very cloudy and a bad smell. This all started after I had sex. Anybody have an idea to whats going on with me? And im not looking to be lectured on unprotected sex.


    You could have a bladder infection; you could have picked up anything from a yeast infection to a STD.

    Hard to say - with these symptoms and a lot of discomfort the Doctor should see you sooner. Does he know about the problem?

    Do you have a fever?

    Is this the older guy you've posted about before? What does he say?
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    Sep 4, 2008, 03:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by iowahawkeyess
    I had my period about 2 weeks ago and right afterwards i lost my virginity. He wore protection the first 2 or 3 times and them he quit using them. He would pull out before he came. I only bled the 3rd time we had sex but it was just a little and i was sore the next day. Well since then it has hurt having sex and just yesterday i started to bleed again, and it hasnt stoped. Its like my period but way more blood. I have never bled this much before. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I don't think sex feels like it should. I don't know what to think of all this.. i made a doctors appointment but they couldnt get me in for another week. I don't understand what is going on with me. I thought maybe I have a bladder infections to.. i feel like i have to pee, but then i can't. My urine has been very cloudy and a bad smell. This all started after I had sex. Anybody have an idea to whats going on with me? And im not looking to be lectured on unprotected sex.
    Ithink you should go straight to the doctors,cause he might of given you a disease or a urin infection.
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    Sep 4, 2008, 03:22 PM
    And I will talk about the sex, pulling out is not birth control, there is plenty of sperm in the other fluid to get you pregnant very easy. So basically he merely wasted the cost of the first few condoms.

    Could be an infection, couild be a sex transmitted issue, and it also could be you being pregnant.
    Since you were having unprotected sex I will assume you wanted to be pregnant
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    Sep 4, 2008, 03:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    And I will talk about the sex, pulling out is not birth control, there is plenty of sperm in the other fluid to get you pregnant very easy. so basicly he merley wasted the cost of the first few condoms.

    Could be an infection, couild be a sex transmitted issue, and it also could be you being pregnant.
    Since you were having unprotected sex i will assume you wanted to be pregnant


    Did you read the other posts? Sort of saw this situation shaping up - and it happened.
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