[immyown8]

Ok well just to be straight up I'm 15 almost 16 and I'm met this guy who is 18. When we first started to talk he just all ways would say how I was way to young,but he thought I was cool so he wanted to be homies and he said that he wanted to watch me grow up... lol.
But latley he's been calling me every night before I go to sleep,and he don't say it straight up but he drops little hints that he likes me. Last night he even told me that he has been prayin to god to send him a girl like me into his life... but then he said that he just doesn't understand why I godda be so young. I mean I am really fealin this dude. He is so cute and has a perfect body.But it's not just that he has a wonderful personality. He is so funny and he listens to me and he is really respectful. I am a really shy person,but when I talk to him it's just like I feel like I can just say anything and everything. He is just everything that I ever wanted in a dude. But I have know clue what to do because he is so old,my mother would hit the fan if she ever found out his age. I just need some advice on what I should do... so if you have any ideas please just leave a reply... it will be much aprisheated...
Thinkzzzz for reading!

[starbuck8]

Keep him as a friend if you want to, but don't take it any further than that. If he cares about you, he will still be around when you're 18. There is a reason your parents would freak out. He is of age, and you are not. If you let your friendship go beyond that, it could land him right in jail.

[Alty]

I'd say you got yourself got caught in a few lies.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...uy-252938.html

Which story is accurate? This one or the one above? Are you shy or not? Are you "crushing" on this guy or another guy, or getting drunk and sleeping with every other guy? I'm curious, because your stories are not very consistent.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ze-254202.html

Well?

[starbuck8]

All right, what is the real deal here? If what you are saying in all of your posts is true, you are running your life right off into the ditch at 15 yrs old. You have no right to take another person right down with you. Stop being selfish.

The first thing you should concentrate on is getting some professional counselling for alcohol, and your other problems, and stop having sex at 15 yrs old. How long have you been doing this? I have a sneaking suspicion that it has been much longer than just a little while. Are you on birth control, are you using protection? Do you even know the consequences of what you are doing at the age of 15? I really don't think you do. You might think you do, but trust me, you absolutely do not have the ability to see around the corners ahead of you.

Pay more attention to your school work, and your 'spelling' and other studies, than you do to boys, and you will be much better prepared when you eventually grow up and realize what you are doing is detrimental to your health and your future.

No decent man is going to want a girl that had a lot of very questionable boys, and behaviours in her life, unless you get help and stop it now, when it's not too late.