[CrazyGirl1993]

First off, I have a boyfriend. I've never been with a girl, but I find myself very attracted to a lot of them. And I don't mean a friendly attraction. I have a few problems. One, I'm not really sure how to define bisexuality, so I don't know if I am. Two, my boyfriend is a Christian, so he might not be so accepting. Three, I live down south. Any attraction to the same sex hits below the Bible Belt (pun intended). Four, I don't have any gay or bi (female) friends (refer back to problem #3). And five, my parents. Enough said. Please help! :confused:

[alanalov]

Best advice : go see a counselor in school

[Jigicou]

I know how you feel its was not`t easy for me to realise I was bi sexual. You need to find your own definition of bisexuality. I come from a very christian family(my grandfather used to smuggle bibles) although most christians won`t acept you, you still need to tell them. Not this instant but one day you will feel comfortable enough in your own skin to come out publicly. I found allot of help over the internet and talking with my school counselor help get the feeling I had off my chest.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Why do you need to define it? Why do you need to label yourself? Feel what you want to feel and don't let anyone or anything tell you that it's wrong.

[Jigicou]

Its not really about lableing yourself but finding yourself and finding something that defines you as a person

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Your sexuality does not define you. Be who you are, you don't need to call it anything.

[Jigicou]

Defineing yourself is not just one thing its hundred and millions of things from your sexuallity to your relligion all these things make you different from other people. But can also help you find people with things incommon with you.