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    Aug 22, 2008, 11:39 AM
    I'm in love with a friends ex
    I had this best friend, and over time we have grown apart, but still talk. I think of her as an aquiantence and she thinks of me as a best friend! On top of that, I'm in love with her ex, what should I do?
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    Aug 22, 2008, 12:54 PM
    I am confused, as to why you both see each other so differently?
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    Aug 22, 2008, 01:01 PM
    She feels that even though we don't don't talk or spend any time together and that I' m always there when she needs me that were best friends. But for me she's never there and I keep catching her in lies, and she ditches me all the time, so I see it differenly then she does
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    Aug 22, 2008, 01:08 PM
    Getting involved with a friends ex can be a bad ordeal. It's not easy in this situation because of the opposing feelings you both have about your friendship. Talk to her and tell her how you feel about your friendship and her ex... see how she reacts...
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    Aug 23, 2008, 05:24 AM
    How does he feel about you? If you really like each other and see you going anywhere, talk to her about it. Don't do anything before you do or you may be betraying her friendship. If she's fine with it then go ahead. Good luck.
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    Aug 23, 2008, 07:26 AM
    Didn't u just wanted to spend your lifetime with this 18 year's old lover of yours?. I'm confussed you'v 3 questing with different questing..
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    Aug 23, 2008, 08:41 AM
    According to your other two posts it sounds like
    How long do you go with a guy before you have problems?
    How well do you get to know guys before you 'fall in love and have sex'?
    How old are you?

    A. You fall in love way too easily
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    B. Maybe you should just sit back and wait for a guy you really like come along

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...er-251885.html
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    Aug 23, 2008, 11:10 AM
    I don't think your confusing lust for love. Are all your questions about the same guy? Was this the so-called friend ex, whom you slept with only for him to sleep with your sister two days later? One thing, sex doesn't equal love and all because you sleep with them, doesn't mean they love you. As mention early, you do seem under 18 and if anything I hope your using protection.
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    Aug 28, 2008, 07:02 PM
    Yes all my posts are about the same guy
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    Aug 28, 2008, 07:02 PM
    I am 20 and have known this guy for about a year
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    Aug 28, 2008, 07:05 PM
    So did you ever talk to your friend about this guy?
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    Aug 28, 2008, 07:38 PM
    As I stated eariler, he don't love you because he slept with your sister. Why do you even care what this girl think when you already was intimate with him? I thought you was suppose ask before hand. Leave this guy alone because regardless he's no good and for anyone to sleep with your sister after sleeping with you has no respect for you and only wanted one thing.
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