[junsmai]

Hi, I'm dating someone who is absolutely great only one thing he is kind of femenine. Not in his walk but his way of talking is that of a gay guys . He is very sexual and we have a great time together but I'm worried that he may be into men only because he talks this way. Any advice? I reallly don't want to get hurt in the future

[twinkiedooter]

If it walks like a duck, it's a duck. If it talks like a duck, it's a duck. What part of a duck don't you understand? I've never met a straight guy who talks like a gay.

[N0help4u]

I know quite a few guys who have rather high pitched feminine voices and ways that are totally straight. From what I could tell the mother was the dominant or only figure in their life and they seemed to pick up feminine traits and characteristics rather than masculine. None of them 'walk gay' but they do have more feminine gestures and so forth. I would go by how he conducts himself socially and the way he treats others. Like if he is looking at males attentively or seems attracted to them maybe he is gay or bi.

I also know very masculine muscle guys that you would never in a million years think they were gay but they are.


**Two of the feminine type guys I know have been happily married for over 15 yrs and each have 5 grown kids.