[raichund]

I've posted already about me and my boyfriend of two years splitting up,what I wanted some advice on was when I first met him he was innocent had a monobrow, didn't look that great clothes were not very 'fashionable' I chnaged him a lot, since he met me he got a lot more female attention, he became popular at uni, thing is he split with me as we argued a lot, but we argued over silly things from day one was a love hate relationship he said himself he loved the aspect of arguing but knowing we would always get back together, first year he treated my like a princess, then he changed, went out more, he would be snappy with me more, we did split several times, but always got back it wasn't A SPLIT as such we seemed to have just said it to one another. In April we had a major split, as I wa setting over him he asked me to go bk with him and I accpeted now he said we split due to arguments, we were not getting along, and because I would beg to come back so he felt sorry :( thing is just before this final split he kissed another girl in a club and told me a month later obviosuly I said it was over but he promised to never make me cry again so I gave in, what you guys think?

[N0help4u]

With all the splitting and getting back together I am not sure if you are saying you are or aren't together now but NO it doesn't sound like he has changed it sounds like he knew how to manipulate you into arguments to the extent he wanted to. Get her angry enough so she apologizes, get her angry enough so we break up, get her angry.. etc...
So basically he knew how to push your buttons and you played right into it.

[Chery]

He had to have the final word, and the power. Some men are just emotionally cold because they don't know any better.

Just go on with your life and don't wait for him to grow up - it would be a waste of your valuable time dear.

[raichund]

Part of me what him back so that I can say 'sorry I've moved on your too late! ' I miss him greatly I cry everyday espcially when I hear songs that we listend to together. Things are looking bright I have now got a modelling contract too :), but my friends think when he sees me at uni hell try it on with me... what do you think

[ISneezeFunny]

So...

I got in a relationship with a girl... then we split up... then got back together... then split up... then got back together again... and then, she kissed another guy, then we split up.

... should I get back with her?

You know the answer to this, already. As I would tell a buddy of mine, "Grow some balls." In your case... stick up for yourself. You know you don't deserve that drama.

[N0help4u]

part of me wat him back so that i can say 'sorry ive moved on ur too late!!' i miss him greatly i cry everyday espcially when i hear songs that we listend to together. things are looking bright i have now got a modelling contract too :), but my firends think when he sees me at uni hell try it on with me...what do you think

A. you cry over him and he isn't even worth it
B. You cry over him and you get back with him just to dump him in turn around but you don't because a part of you just loves him TOO much
C. You go to Uni and you manage to turn his head and want you back so bad only for him to start treating you just as bad or even worse.

Which option are you wanting here?

[Chery]

You need to tell your friends that there are better subjects for conversation than him and that you will be busy getting your life together.

Good luck with the model job, as it will certainly keep you very busy.

May I suggest that you change your choice in music for a while and also buy new pillows for the couch and change the furniture around. Any change is for the better, so start setting some solid reachable goals for yourself and don't dwell.

[N0help4u]

Yep on the songs board you can post the types of music you like and ask for suggestions.
Give an idea of music you are trying to steer clear of.

[talaniman]

Nobody changes in 8 days unless lightning strikes them... and they live.