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    Just A Guy Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 16, 2008, 10:55 AM
    Something or nothing?
    Hi guys me and my girl have been with each other for a year and half. The other night she was really arousing me she was in full control and I was loving it!
    These were my words to her "God *insert name here* what are you trying to do to me"
    Her reply was "Im making you faithful"
    Now I was a bit too caught up in the moment to really think anything of it. To give you a bit of history at the beginning of the relationship I kissed another girl but that was it and I've never done anything like that since and I never would. As far as I'm concerned we have a trusting relationship. Am I making something out of nothing here?
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    Aug 16, 2008, 11:18 AM
    She wants you to be enthralled with her sexual techinique so you won't think of finding another woman.

    Just forget about what she said; she's bragging... She's too young to be thinking she is all that. ;)

    Best wishes,
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    Aug 17, 2008, 10:53 AM
    She assumes that if she satisfies her guy at home WITH her then 'her man' will not stray. That is not always true because some men will and do anyway.
    Just enjoy it and don't read anything into it.
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    Aug 17, 2008, 06:10 PM
    Don't complicate it...

    You started the line with "what are you trying to do to me"... (which I think was rhetorical)... and she finished it off with a sexy comeback.

    Get over it.

    If you let this be a headgame when a lover playfully responds to a question you ask during sex, then you are just looking for problems.

    The statement that she's going to make it good enough that you can't walk away is sexy as sin. If you don't think it is, I guess I'm sorry to hear that. If my lover says that, I'm a happy guy the rest of the day.

    Unless there are other problems worth talking about, or history not made apparent, id just let her quick, witty comeback be charming and alluring.

    If you cant... you need to figure out why its an issue.
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    Aug 20, 2008, 09:26 AM
    The best way to find out what your girlfriend meant is to ask her! She may have been teasing you or it may be a concern of hers for some reason right now. Maybe a friend just found out her boyfriend / H was cheating?

    In any case, asking her about it will not only give you your answer but also open the door to other good discussion topics between you guys. Like how loyal you are to her & how hot she was when she said that to you, how great she was making you feel. In fact, you may want to recreate it just to be completely accurate in describing how wonderful it felt so you don't miss any of the details! :)

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