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    Iceman1018 Posts: 42, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 16, 2008, 09:47 AM
    Did I do the right thing?
    So I dated this girl for just over a month and everything was perfect. Our personalities matched perfect, we had the same goofy sense of humor and we had so much fun together. About a week ago we were both kind of wondering if we should break up or not. Something inside both of us kept telling us to break up and at the same time stay together. We talked about it and we decided to stay together and everything was fine. Last night at a party we both went to she seemed to be a little distant from me and I asked her about it and she finally told me that she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me. She said that when she is with me that she wanted to be together but when she is not with me she wanted to break up. So I told her I don't want to be in a relationship where someone isn't 100% committed... so we broke up. Did I do the right thing?
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    Aug 16, 2008, 09:58 AM
    You 100% did the right thing.
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    Aug 16, 2008, 10:05 AM
    If you are looking for an exclusive relationship, then you did the right thing since she isn't wanting that right now. Good for her for being honest and upfront about it with you. If you just wanted to go out and have some fun now and then, you could still do that. Give her sometime, see how things go.
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    Aug 17, 2008, 08:01 PM
    I think you did the exact right thing. If she's not feeling it then it's her loss!
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    Aug 17, 2008, 08:05 PM
    Why are you asking us when its your private life. In my opinion its only you who knows if you are right or wrong.

    Hope I helped!
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    Aug 17, 2008, 10:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by princeblu12
    Why are you asking us when its your private life. in my opinion its only you who knows if you are right or wrong.

    hope i helped!
    Most of the posts in this section are about people's private lives... I'm sure he does know that he did the right thing which is all that really matters, but it is also nice to hear outsiders opinions on situations

    So with that, yes, looking in from the outside, I would have to think you did the right thing
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    Aug 17, 2008, 11:22 PM
    Yes you did the right thing!!

    I wouldn't want to be with some one who wants me when we are together but another person when apart.

    And they say distance is good for a relationship?? Pshh
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    Aug 21, 2008, 10:31 PM
    You I thought I did the right thing lol
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