I like this guy but he doesn't like me at all I don't think.

mizz_on_her_own · Aug 11, 2008, 12:24 PM

I like this guy he is 21 years old and I know that I am WAY too young. But I like him for some reason. And he isn't really that good looking but his personality is AMAZING!! What should I do?? :confused:

DrLang · Aug 11, 2008, 02:33 PM

How old are you? If you say that you're way too young, I assume that you are 15 or younger. It's normal for us through our youth (and beyond) to get crushes on various people. It's perfectly healthy. Unfortunately there's usually nothing that we an do about it if they're just not interested. Eventually your heart will move on. There's nothing wrong with enjoying their company in the meantime though.

mizz_on_her_own · Aug 11, 2008, 08:57 PM

Yeah he is AWESOME to hang out with. And I love his company. He's funny fun and just an all around good guy.

HighandDryinnNy · Aug 11, 2008, 09:35 PM

He shouldn't be interested if you're wayyyyy too young. He could go to jail. I could never imagine telling my friends when I was 21 'yeah hey I date this really AMAZING AWESOME chick she's like in 10th grade'
Stop hanging with him, you're putting both of you in a dangerous situation

LoveisBlind · Aug 15, 2008, 07:08 AM

If he is that much older - I'm sorry to say this, but you will just have to accept that is unlikely that he will want anything to happen. I mean, could you imagine going out with a 11 year old - because that's almost the same age difference (I'm assuming you are 15/16). You also have to accept that it is probably the best thing for both of you.

Crushes pass quickly, and though it may hurt at first, you will find someone your own age you like as much if not more than this guy.

Keep this guy as a friend though, if his personality is as awesome as you say it is!

N0help4u · Aug 15, 2008, 11:23 AM

Anything younger than 17 you might as well just be friends and not try to get to bf/gf stage until you are at least 17/18.

auntierox · Feb 28, 2011, 08:18 AM

I know what you're saying I've been there too best way to find casually bring up that you're seeing some one seeing some one. If he starts asking questions and saying no ones good enough for you he may just be being nice but if he turns his back on you and walks off he is reakky jelous you'll now just test him and love age is just a number! Xox