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    luke1234 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 13, 2008, 12:44 AM
    Am I straight or gay?
    I am 19 and in college trying to find myself. I am realizing that I could possibly be gay, but I'm not sure... I don't know anyone who is gay to help me with this, so I guess for those who are could you help me by telling me how you knew?
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    Aug 13, 2008, 06:07 AM
    Are you attracted to men to the point of wanting to have sex with them? How about women?
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    Aug 13, 2008, 12:28 PM
    *All* my gay male friends told me they knew they were gay from the very beginning, so I would think you know who you are attracted to, right?

    Perhaps, you are inhibited from thinking about it because of religious teachings that condemn homosexuality??

    I'll tell you a bit of wisdom: you have to get out in the real world and live your life! Youth is a time of trial and error, or trial and success, or trial and whatever. As a youth, you are starting to get old, pal. :) Tomorrow, go out and start a relationship with a girl... see if you like kissing her and getting felt up... whatever. There is a start for you. If not, ask a guy out. Ya got to have a backbone to be an individual. :)

    Time to get out and live your life in all respects... friends, scholarship, sex, sports, hobbies...

    Best wishes to you, :)
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    Aug 13, 2008, 03:03 PM
    Hard to say because your question is not very detailed you could be but really only you would truly know anyway.
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    Aug 15, 2008, 06:48 AM
    From your name I assume you are a man.

    Unless you like playing the skin flute then likely you aren't.

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