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southerngalps · Aug 12, 2008, 01:16 PM

Altenweg agrees: I agree. As long as hubby is honest about watching porn, no problem. I also watch porn once in a while, not something I need, but when watching it with hubby, not a bad bit of foreplay. :)

Exactly... it's fun. But would it aggrivate you if he did it often without you? This question is not just for you but everyone who says that their husbands can do it anytime they want to and it wouldn't bother them. I like it with my boyfriend, but if I knew that he did it without me, I think I would have different feelings... I wouldn't know..?

southerngalps · Aug 12, 2008, 01:32 PM

Why would there be a need to do it without you? Are you not sexy enough anymore? You can't tell me that these are not thoughts that go through your mind if you know your husband gets off to porn without you. And if he does get off with you and porn, then, I guess he just must have a HIGH HIGH sex drive and you can't keep up with him and that is why you are not upset by it.

Synnen · Aug 12, 2008, 01:55 PM

If my husband is getting off to porn without me, I am sick, tired, PMSing, whatever.

Honestly, he's welcome to it. I know darn well that if I went in that room and said "Take me now!" while he's looking at porn, I'd still be his first pick.

I ALSO know that sometimes a quick masturbation session is okay--I do it too! It takes the edge off for something more intense between us the next time it happens, and as a chronic insomniac, it will sometimes be just what I need to go to sleep, without waking my husband in the middle of the night.

What it comes down to is that my husband shows and tells me EVERY DAY how beautiful and sexy I am to him, and that I KNOW that porn is just a picture. I equate porn for guys with romance novels for women. Both are completely unrealistic, but a good little escape into fantasy occasionally---and every now and then, a good source for something fun in the bedroom ;)

southerngalps · Aug 12, 2008, 02:09 PM

Great points:)

luke1234 · Aug 13, 2008, 12:46 AM

I think its fine all men like porn including husbands. As long as he still loves you and treats you right you should be fine.

Xrayman · Aug 13, 2008, 04:07 PM

I think its fine all men like porn including husbands.

Incorrect. I only like porn that includes wives.