[mommy78]

:confused: okay I have this big problem see the thing is like couple years ago I hada thing for my brother friend buti was seeing someone else but I didn't really want to be wit him because he was smothering me too much so I dumb him for my brother friend but this is the sad part well I was seeing this boy and I was like him a lot and I thought I was happy wit him and his but was in mad debt so I thought I was given him mad money to help him because I had a heart then I come to find out that he used me and stuff but then we did break up because he a lot of stuff was going on and now his but in jail because he did something really stupid but I told him I had a heart and for gave him for what he done to me and I should have butt I did and I think jail really change him ITHINK so now he want another chance witme to fix things but I'm not really sure if I should believe him because I'm afraid he will go back to the girl that he was wit for 5 years I'm not sure what to do but I still got feeling for him I hate having a heart but I was growing up to love and care for pep even if they don't like me back but what can :( I do

[Skell]

Maybe you need to start to care about yourself more and not others and realise that if he has hurt you once and treated you badly that he will most likely do it again. I'm not the person to give you too much advice as I'm ony new here and I'm sure some of the more 'senior' posters will be able to offer you some good advice. But it sounds as though to me that this guy isn't really that good a person.
I think you should find someone that makes you happy. You seem to be too uncertain about this person to have a healthy relationship.

[toohz]

I think that a leopard can change his spots. But this is a very difficult question. A lot has happened and he has taken great advantage of your kindness and trust. A relationship needs trust at it is a solid foundation. Good luck.

[educatedhorse_2005]

Kick him to the curb and forget about him. He will just brake your heart and leave you again.

[Krs]

Don't be silly, do not go back, he used you for your kindness and money, there is no harm in forgiving because you have heart but don't be foolish and fall for his trap again.

Be selfish yourself and think for you only. Otherwise what's the point he will only use you and hurt you again because he knows your kind and fall for his bulls*it again.

Be careful and keeps your eyes wide open.
GOOD LUCK

[fredg]

Hi, mommy,
Know something? We make our own luck; we choose to be with people we like, and who likes us. Make another choice!
Life is wonderful, except for those things that happen that we can't control; like illness sometimes, or accidents. You CAN control who you choose to be with!
Please think about this relationship. It doesn't have any of the trusting, caring, wanting the other to be happy, and "giving", necessary to be a good relationship.
I would move on. SMILE, and talk about others, and you will have more friends than you can handle... but not him!
Best of luck.