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Walla · May 16, 2006, 08:51 AM

Hi Everyone, I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 months we got on really well mostly meet the weekends as he worked about 3hrs away and worked long hrs. He is a quite but really nice there isn't too many off them out there. Well he finished with me and I didn't see him for a while after but when I did we got talking and he has been out most weekends in the same place as I go and comes over taking to me he is the one that makes the effort not me! His friend told my friend that he told him that "He was mad about me" but I don't know why he finished with me if that is the case?

I have had plenty of offers since my ex-boyfriend but I am not interested as I still like him, my friend said that we were not going to be out the following weekend and he said in shock "why where will ye be" so I was thinking if he wasn't interested in me he wouldn't have reacted in this way, I have seen him looking at me and he says my name a lot in conversation but the only thing is I don't know how he feels about me if it is the case he just wants to be friends with me or wants to build the friendship first and then say something to me. There was a case where I felt he wanted to talk to me but somebody else interrupted. I don't know how to find out how he feels, I would prefer if he was the one that came to me since he finished it and if I say something I would never know if he wanted me, I don't know please help what should I do as this is driving me mad.

Thanks

Krs · May 16, 2006, 09:04 AM

Honey the only way you can find out what he feels is you ask him personally yourself.
Coz if you asked your friends to ask him, than that would be childish.
Save beating around the bush and wondering, than you totally know where you stand and that way what you got to lose??
Think about it

Wildcat21 · May 16, 2006, 10:16 AM

Nothing is magically going to happen... you need to talk with him right now and share your feelings. You will at least get your answer.

talaniman · May 16, 2006, 12:18 PM

A friendly face to face would clear the air. Call him and arrange it as soon as possible. Be prepared though for whatever!

Daladier · May 16, 2006, 01:06 PM

You should just ask him!At the end of the day what have you got to lose,plus at least you'll learn for definite where you stand.
I've been in a similar situation before and I was so glad I asked because we ended up together.
You should ask him why he broke it off,maybe then you guys can work on the faults then as well.
Good Luck!

Krs · May 17, 2006, 02:00 AM

In fact before I started dated my hubby, I obviously fancied the pants off him and all my mates used to tell me " fancies you too " but I was never sure of it... so what did I do, I found the right place and time when we were alone an di just asked him and told him how I felt... 8 years later - we're married :)

fredg · May 17, 2006, 03:44 AM

Hi,
You have some good answers so far.
Would just like to add that 2 months isn't a very long time at all. I've been married for 29 yrs, to a wonderful woman.
All your questions can be answered by talking with him. Ask him about it. Be honest, and SMILE when you talk with him. Chances are, he has moved on. But, you will never know until you find out from him.
Best wishes.

amily · Jun 6, 2007, 06:10 PM

Hi there,
Ask him, this the only the way you can find out how he feels about you. Honestly do it as soon as you can, because if you don't then you will have all these questions in your head for the rest of your life and you will wonder what would have happened if you did ask him. Don't wait around any longer, just do it. I know its hard, I have been there myself a few month ago, but trust me you will feel so much better after and who knows maybe there is a chance of you two getting back together again:) Best of luck!:)