[baby444ca]

I have been together with my husband for five years and have been married for one.
For the last two years we only have sex once a month if that.

I just don't want it... Im only 24 and he is 28 andwe have two kids together.
I know he is frustrated with it but he says that it doesn't matter.

What should I do?

Nothing has helped, I have even went to the doctor with no success

[Alty]

Have you considered counselling to get to the root of the problem?

[hollylovesbrandon]

Please only post your question in one thread, it confuses people.

[ChristyDC]

Yes, it is. If you can. Get the book "His Needs Her Needs" It is an excellent book that addresses your issue and others. Children can decrease a woman's desire to have sex. Also, lack of help around the house and just lack of you getting your needs met can keep you from wanting to. Intimacy is important in a marriage. Maybe you need a break from the kids and need to spend time trying to reconnect with your husband. Try a date night or something once every 2 weeks. It doesn't have to lead to sex but just be affectionate with each other more often and see what happens from there. You may also get counseling. There could be something in your past that is surfacing. Basically, do something because when a man doesn't get sex from his wife , that man is ripe for an affair. I'm not saying he is doing anything but you are definitely allowing the stage to be set.

[akua obene]

Hello,I think you are getting to use to your husband,don't be exposing your body anyhow and don't think now you guyz are married so you are siblings,forget it,men are so unpredictable,preserve urslef and let him dare you before you give it out,with that you can get that love back.