[drPrimetime]

Well ever since I last wrote anything about my ex on this, I've been focusing on myself more and I actually love it.

My ex messaged me on MSN yesterday to tell me that she's "sorry" for the outcome of what happened and it's the best decision for the both of us to carry on with our own lives. I also apologized for my reaction towards her decision back when she was with someone else and she refused to inform me, which I found out during a, what could have been really intimate moment between the two of us. For obvious reasons things were torn apart. She's still with that person that she two timed with me and him. I can respect her reason to apologize after our 3 months of no contact. She was interested of what I've been up to while she was in Italy having a ball. She also kept on sharing her experience (briefly) because my interest wasn't that enthused. My sarcasim spoke out just to end our little chit chat.
Now the question is that if she's with this other guy, who personally seems lame in his domenor, and she responds as if he's obviously a rebound by feeding his insecurity (ref. facebook) and that she has been thinking about our rough and tumble outcome, hence the apology and the information. What is her agenda except a simple apology and since our line is somewhat connected, will I hear from her again and with what intentions? We both agree it would never work out so is it a bad thing to open these lines again and is sex, although I'd ponder the notion, but I do miss, still up for grabs. I don't even give a damn about her life so why the info?

[plonak]

Uh it really isn't your concern anymore who she is dating, and yes, you didn't want to hear it but I suggest you ignore it and move on with the NC. Maybe she's trying to get you angry or make you feel bad, or maybe even wants you to beg for her back.. but in reality it doesn't matter what she wants anymore, it's about your and recovery... just go back to nc and try to move forward..

[drPrimetime]

I know I broke the rule of no contact plus I also sent her an email that she might take in later in which I told her that I except her apology but she did hurt me and that's something that will never change. I can carry on with my recovery but I hurts to see that she transitioned with the guy that she cheated on us with. Not my business but betrayal is vengeful and I realize that even though you wish the best for everyone. I'll dedicated my last thing to NC from here on out

[chuff]

This is all nice but let's not forget the focus of who is most important. You. It's nice that she apologized but at the end of the day she showed her true colors so you be thankful that you got out and not that you got stuck with her.

[Romefalls19]

You need to look out for you, stop worrying about other people