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fenderstrummer28 · Jul 31, 2008, 04:05 PM

OK well about 3 weeks ago, I ended my relationship with my ex. She went out with another guy 5 DAYS AFTER we broke up. That got me mad, but it didn't kill me

So the other day, I'm planning a party I'm having and I've heard from a couple of people that she told one of my good friends not to come. That got me so mad I punched a freakin hole in the wall

I'm here today to ask anybody what a good CLEAN but embarrassing revenge plan I could do on her.

Any suggestions?

Fr_Chuck · Jul 31, 2008, 04:07 PM

First no, they are a ex, that means you get over them, punching a hole in a wall, man get some anger management help.

This shows that you are not over them and you need to work on moving on. Best way, to get back, stop punching holes, stop worrying about them, and move on and don't care what they do, that is the worst thing you can do to the toher person

plonak · Jul 31, 2008, 04:09 PM

I don't suggest you do anything, you will regret it later.. you seem very very young.. I suggest you move on, that is the best revenge you can do on someone is be happy with yourself and you life and find another girl that you are interested in..

Most of us here on AMHD are mature adults and will not be giving you the advice that you're asking for.. so best bet is to learn from the experienced.. we're older and much much wiser...

ISneezeFunny · Jul 31, 2008, 04:14 PM

Yep... no revenge, it only makes you look like a jerk in the end. Trust me, walking away makes you a bigger person. If your good friend doesn't come, then... well, that's just not a very good friend, then is he/she?

progunr · Jul 31, 2008, 04:17 PM

The best and only revenge is to live a better and happier life than she will.

talaniman · Jul 31, 2008, 04:17 PM

Learn to control your temper, and maybe a female will stay loyal longer. Seriously, there are many guys who have ruined relationships because they couldn't control their temper. Is this you? If not, then forget revenge, it tends to backfire.

simoneaugie · Jul 31, 2008, 04:25 PM

To get "revenge" just pray for your ex. Pray to whomever or whatever, that she is happy and healthy, for her to have all the good things you would like for yourself. It sounds crazy, but you will be amazed with the results.

Then forget her, it. Live well and treat others (including walls) as you would like them to treat you.

ylaira · Jul 31, 2008, 04:30 PM

Be more beautiful, happier, soar high and someone to regret to be dumped.

tolerance · Jul 31, 2008, 04:35 PM

It might hurt if your friend don't show but your having a party. Have fun, who knows who you might met. Life is too short to worry about things you can't change so don't let this affect you enjoying yourself because tomorrow is never promise. Have fun!

fenderstrummer28 · Jul 31, 2008, 06:21 PM

No. Everyone that's saying get over it and that I'm not over her... its not that.

I'm definitely over her. I can't even stand to look at her face.

This is just a little thing she did that pissed me off.

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2008, 07:28 PM

Patch your hole in the wall and have your party. Tell the friends that she told don't come that she is just saying that for spite and you really look forward to their being there. Have a great party.

She went out 5 days after you broke up... so... she is no longer your girlfriend... so get over it.
Your getting mad only feds her enjoying knowing how much it bothers you.

loveishard · Aug 1, 2008, 01:26 PM

Revenge is a sign of imaturity ( sorry I can't spel for my life lol )
It's a sign of jelousy and that you still care about her..

Don't do it, that's all I have to say.

Its dumb and it shows you still think about her way to often considering you say your over her, just drop her

The best revenage I can think of.. that isn't being immature or anything is just showing her your over her..

Forget about her. Don't think about her tlk to her contact her or anything
That will be a huge slap in the face like woah.. and mayeb she will come back to you and you can reject her.. that's good enough revenge right?

I don't know I feel like in contradicting myself here

Daisy87 · Aug 1, 2008, 01:36 PM

So, you say that you are over her and that you can't stand her face... Here's something you got to understand. There is a difference between not "liking" someone anymore, and being "over" them. People aren't trying to say you're in love with her or anything, it's just residual attachments that kind of come naturally after dating someone. There were times after I broke up with a guy that I knew that I didn't "like" him anymore, but it still hurt to think about him. That's what these people are talking about when they talk about you not being over her. There is some type of feeling that is stirred when you think about the whole thing.

As for the revenge thing. It really does drive a girl crazy when you don't fall for her tricks. If you retaliate you will be playing right into her hands. Just leave it alone.