Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    miller3's Avatar
    miller3 Posts: 80, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
    		  
    #1

    Jul 30, 2008, 06:33 AM
    Resentment from the ex?
    I know what resentment means. My ex shows it all the time. My questions are after 5 months apart why still does she fill that way? And how can I correct that? Meaning is it because she is not over the situation or she needs closure with me, or she is mad at me?
    Help me out here please.
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
    		  
    #2

    Jul 30, 2008, 07:54 AM
    Simply she is holding it against you and she possibly likes it that way.
    Let her go it is not your problem how she chooses to feel. If she wanted closure she would be letting you know because people that want closure make it quite clear.
    CheekyChop20's Avatar
    CheekyChop20 Posts: 40, Reputation: 1
    -
    		  
    #3

    Jul 30, 2008, 08:21 AM
    Bruv a woman can resent you for the rest of their life! 5 months is nothing. You cannot correct it because you're no longer apart of her life and she isn't in yours. Only she knows why she's behaving in such a manner and frankly it should be the least of your worries.
    Romefalls19's Avatar
    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Jul 30, 2008, 08:41 AM
    Who cares if she resents you? She will get over it eventually... Let her lie in her own bed
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
    		  
    #5

    Jul 30, 2008, 08:59 AM
    After 5 months, why do you care what goes on in her little head?? Why make this a bigger deal than what it is.
    JBeaucaire's Avatar
    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
    Software Expert
    		  
    #6

    Jul 30, 2008, 09:12 AM
    Letting her hate you is a gift. Let her. Attempts on your part to "calm her" or "ease her anger" will actually frustrate her all the more.

    Don't worry about her. Let her deal with your relationship ending the way she wants.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Is resentment against the Americans up or down [ 28 Answers ]

Everyone and their mother seem to have an idea about how well the “surge” is working; I think someone should ask the Iraqis what they think. I wonder how they would rate their personal security. Is resentment against the Americans up or down since the “surge” began? But on second thought,...

Role Reversal/Resentment [ 3 Answers ]

I'm not sure this is the right area to post this, but I just really want to vent more than anything. I went back to work in the corporate world after a few years at home. My husband and I own a real estate business, so I ran that and took care of the house and kids while he worked a full-time...

How can I get over my resentment? [ 3 Answers ]

My fiancé has a 16 year old son that he spends all his spare time with. Mind you, I am not jealous of the relationship they have... I think it's great that they have so many common interests (dirtbikes and such). The problem is, my fiancé always has time for his son, but when I want to do...

View more questions Search