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    Jul 21, 2008, 10:56 AM
    For females: topic about attraction to guys who are not your boyfriend
    Hi all

    Just wondering what women are attracted to / by - when it comes to guys other than their boyfriend?

    Were you anything other than attracted? Did you cheat and what made you? - was it issues with the boyfriend or qualities demonstrated by the 'other guy'?

    This doesn't relate to me - I'm recently single and no other guy was involved, but I am interested in this sort of thing and wondered if any women could shed light on it?

    Thx

    J
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    Jul 21, 2008, 11:10 AM
    I like confidence.. no actually I love it.. but there is a fine line from being cocky.. which is what I hate..

    A man with a low self esteem is someone you want to stay FAR away from.. Most of those guys cheat on their girlfriends because they crave attention from other girls to bring themselves esteem up..

    I also look for honesty and for them to be trustworthy.. and HUMOR!! If they can't ever laugh, see you! I like them to be goofy too..

    Oh and no, I've never cheated on a boyfriend in my life.. so can't answer there
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    Jul 21, 2008, 11:35 AM
    My girlfriend had low self esteem and just left me for another guy because she though "i hated her"
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    Jul 21, 2008, 11:50 AM
    Yea it works both ways huh?
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    Jul 21, 2008, 01:29 PM
    Wow. Funny this is posted here.
    I'm not really attracted to other guys. And he fits everything I'm attracted to.
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    Jul 21, 2008, 01:51 PM
    Surely women are attracted to others!

    Doesn't mean its bad - its human nature surely?
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    Jul 21, 2008, 01:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 1927city
    Hi all

    Just wondering what women are attracted to / by - when it comes to guys other than their boyfriend?

    Were you anything other than attracted? Did you cheat and what made you? - was it issues with the boyfriend or qualities demonstrated by the 'other guy'?

    This doesn't relate to me - I'm recently single and no other guy was involved, but I am interested in this sort of thing and wondered if any women could shed light on it?

    Thx

    J
    I am not attracted to a man until I get to know him first no matter how good-looking he is, although good looks can be a bonus because if there is no physical attraction then how can we have a romantic relationship? Other then that I hope for him to be kind, honest and smart. Humor is important too.
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