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    chicanaprincess Posts: 3, Reputation: 0
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    Jul 19, 2008, 10:57 AM
    I've known him for almost 6 years and we've been on and off relationships
    I Have This Boyfriend But Hes Also Going Out With This Other Girl And Im Going To Be Starting To Go Out With This Guy But We Decided To Kep Our Relationship On The Down Low How Do You Feel About That
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    Jul 19, 2008, 02:54 PM
    If you are keeping it just as friends all the way around and everybody is okay with it then it should be okay but if the other guy starts getting serious with the other girl then you need to back off.
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    Jul 20, 2008, 09:55 AM
    It oblivious no one is serious about this relationship if your both are going out with other people. I can only hope your both are being honest with the other people your both are involve with.
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    Jul 21, 2008, 04:33 PM
    There is no relationship to keep on the "low down". Secret relationships are indications he/you are cheating on some other part of life. Is that what you grew up hoping you would get out of life?

    "When I grow up, I want to be someone's secret girlfriend."
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    Jul 21, 2008, 07:22 PM
    This is not a relationship. On & off? I'd consider that as friends with benefits.
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    Jul 22, 2008, 08:37 AM
    Definitely a non runner. Neither of you are going to get anything out of this, as one of you will like the 'new' gf/bf, jealousy will kick in, and you guys will likely not even end up friends.

    Whoever suggested it and 'sold' the idea to the other one is clearly wanting out.

    Cut the ties and move on
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