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kmb61795 · Jul 18, 2008, 02:23 PM

I just got a boyfriend who is 14 and I am 13 and he is my bff's cousin is there anyting wrong with that??

p.s. this is my first boyfriend

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE · Jul 18, 2008, 02:24 PM

Why would there be anything wrong with having a boyfriend?
Does your best friend have a problem with that?

ylaira · Jul 18, 2008, 02:40 PM

Commonly it is not advisable to have BF on that age because the judgement of the reality against the feelings is not yet fully developed, so some were abused and used.. Also, on that age, kids are still establishing themselves as individual so relationship is much complicated than they thought they can handle sometimes.

Just in my opinion, the youngest age should have a first relationship for women should be 16, 18 for guys. But most of a time it doesn't happen.

kmb61795 · Jul 18, 2008, 02:43 PM

No my friend doesn't have a promblem with it.

ylaira · Jul 18, 2008, 02:49 PM

Im certain that you won't follow what Im saying after this. You will discover that later as your relationship "progresses". It may bring problem with you later in your adulthood, trust me.

kmb61795 · Jul 18, 2008, 02:54 PM

O wel my friend ask him out for me. I am txtin him now

ylaira · Jul 18, 2008, 02:58 PM

Honey, Im pertaining about the effect of your very early relationship TO YOU. Not what other people feels.

kmb61795 · Jul 18, 2008, 03:02 PM

What is that suppose to mean? (not in a mean why just asking)

ylaira · Jul 18, 2008, 03:56 PM

Not that I am scaring you but this is reality. You know, guys on that age still experiments and "explores" themselves and so are you, maybe in postitive way.

Girls tend to be so engrossed, boys flirts with other girls too, get engaged to sex, get pregnant, the guy finds another girl interesting and the girl left used, or the family of the other leaves town, both of them were sad left school, turned to drugs & never finished high school. Im sure you've heard stories like this and it happens... A LOT!!

Im not saying that these will happen to you but these are the realities&possibilities of being in a relationship.This is too much to handle for a 13 yr old. I want you to be just careful that's why I'm making an effort to type this. Im not expecting it will sink to you this time, it will but not this time. Do your parents know about this? Please let them know so you will be guided.

kmb61795 · Jul 22, 2008, 01:28 PM

Yea my parents no about it and my boyfriend already lives 2 hours and 30 minutes away and he is going to Germany today. And I want be able to talk to him until August