[Dallasboy]

First my ex was 18 when we met I was 26.At first I thought it would just be a fling but it turned into a really great relationship. When she decided to end the relationship we talked and said that we would be friends. She has never really given a reason for wanting to end it, other than she was unhappy. At first we still talked everyday but that was it. I begged her back and all, but nothing, so I decided not to call her anymore.(after getting advice from this site)About four days past ,and she called, and wanted to come over, and I did. We talked and she admitted that she still cared for me but couldn't really reveal her feelings to me. In between this she has called me crying saying that she was really having a hard time with the break up as well but she just doesn't show it. So I asked her over for dinner the next weekend that's when we slept together. When I try to talk to her about any kind of emotional feelings she gets irritated and ends the conversation. She has said that she feels nothing for us anymore I seen her yesterday to get something's I hade left at her place. I just wanted to get my things and go she started a conversation and we talked for a few minutes. I turned to walk away after we talked and she called my name and asked for a hug. For someone that's not supposed to care she held on pretty tight. Keep in mind all of this has happen in the last three weeks or so.We have been broken up since May But can you guys see the mixed messages I'm getting from her. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK

[Rockstar714]

I think that she's sending you mixed messages.

She wants you, but doesn't want to be emotionally involved and relationships don't work like that. I think its best if you cut the contact with her.

[talaniman]

But can you guys see the mixed messages I'm getting from her.

That's pretty obvious, so why are you going over there, when she calls?

[Romefalls19]

She wants her cake and to eat it as well... And so far, you are definitely satisfying her appetite for this