[iceeman]

I'm trying to get back with my ex girlfriend but I don't know if she is through with me or not?

She called me one day and told me she needed her space because she wanted to put herself in life first for w/e reason.. I was kind of being clingy and finally I called her saying some stupid verbal abuse to her (which I regret now).. I talked to her about a week after that she told me I was crazy and she was through wit me.. I later found out she was seeing this married man but she even said she mad a dumb mistake and is not seeing him anymore.. so I waited about 3 weeks after that and decided to give it another go.. so I emailed her and sent her some teddy bears through the mail but now she ignores me and I'm still request pending on myspace lol.. so I don't know what the deal is.. do you guys think she is still thinking about it or what?

Additional Details

She was 19 and I was 22.. we were together for about err 4-5 months.. when things were positive it was like magic.. butt I don't know 100 percent if she was seeing this married guy when she broke up with me because about 2 weeks later she posted a blog about him but then took him down for w/e reason.. so I don't think she knows what she wants.. her last boyfriend abused her.. so when we broke up I told her I'm glad her ex abused her.. I felt really bad for saying it.. and I do regret it and I sent her teddy bears and told her from the bottom of my heart I was sorry but I haven't heard anything from her since.. so I don't know

[Alty]

She's doing No Contact, in other words, she's done with you. It's time to move on, what you are doing isn't going to get her back, I doubt very much that anything will. You said hurtful things, and she's moved on. You're sorry, and that's good, but she's not buying it.

It's time for you to do NC, and move on. Take some time to get over her, live your life and let her live hers.

Good luck.

[ylaira]

No chance anymore so move on. Just like her exes, you somewhat abused her (verbally) too. In her heart your all the same so she's moving on so should you.Just learn from this, okay?

[Romefalls19]

It's over, she's done with you. You took the break up rather immaturely and verbally abused her. She is finally realizing that she is worth more than that and if you would stoop that low after only dating 4-5 months, then the violence would more than likely increase over time. You became way to attached, way to quickly. It was a new relationship and if you need a break that quickly into a new romance when you should still be on the honeymoon period, then obviously it wasn't meant to be. Just chalk this one up to failure and move on

[JBeaucaire]

She's done. She dumped YOU, so there is no "I think I'll get back with her" path. Your feelings don't matter anymore on this issue. You've been turfed. It hurts, but that is the way it is.

Now cut it out. You loved her, we got that. She dumped YOU, we get that it hurts. We've all been there. But over is over, and pitiful is just around the corner. GO the other way.

[talaniman]

I will make it unanimous, stick a fork in it, this relationship is done. Kaput! Over!