[maurice7769]

Yes,

I have been having a lot of problems about being including with my
Daughter in law and her family.

My husband and I have tried and tried to do everything exactly
Right, The gold rule.

Now my son who has a college degree and has been counseling
Alcoholic/drug person's and had a good job, decided to enter
Into the military. He is not athletically inclined, and is entering
Bootcamp this week. Anyway, I wanted to go to see him off
And was basically told that my daughter in law was tired of me
Callling them, etc.

Now I am supposed to call them this evening regarding him
Leaving, and quite frankly, after the message she left me, I am
Wondering if I should or not? My husband and I live about 1 1/2 hours
Away from them, so it's not like we can just go over there.

I don't know what is causing all of this, and like I said we have been
Very nice and chose to use the golden rule regarding her and her
Familyh

What should we do?

[N0help4u]

Can you talk to HIM and ask HIM what he wants and tell him how much he means to you and you want to be a part of his life but you want to know what HE feels boundaries should be[but she makes you feel unwelcome at times]