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unkownheart · Jul 12, 2008, 07:54 AM

Okay so my question is that I like a boy and he has literatly NO clue that I like him
And we don't even go to tha same school yet ill be going to his school next year.. hopefully we live in the same place... manahhaten nyc and I don't even have contact with him besides his Facebook.. I know it sounds sooo pathetic but somehow I feel like a really want to go out of my shell for him and mabye be serious.. or just get to know him because I am not AT ALL like this.. the scary part and I want to know how to get his attention... he has absolutley NO CLUE who I am other than were friends on faebook.. I mean I've never talked to tha guy.. can someone pleaseeee and I quote pleaseee help me?
Thanks sooo much

N0help4u · Jul 12, 2008, 08:28 AM

Maybe you could start by sending him a message on face book
If he has been going to that school already then you could start by asking him what the school is like and what the teachers are like, what classes he takes, what classes he likes, what he hates, etc...

nova225 · Jul 12, 2008, 10:13 AM

I agree with NOhelp4U... send him a message on Facebook. If he's really interested he'll write back, and sooner or later he might ask for your number. Make sure you ask him will he show you around school... if he says yes then you won't have to worry about fighting for his attention when you start school.

JBeaucaire · Jul 12, 2008, 12:45 PM

You've already raced WAAAAY ahead in your mind over this thing. There's nothing here to warrant you stressing this much over, nothing at all.

You need to recognize obsessive behavior in yourself and stifle it as soon as it starts. If you don't, you'll learn this as a "realationship management" style and you'll have stress for the rest of your life because of it.

So, take some deep breaths. Getting to know this guy is not stressful occurrence. Resist turning him in your mind anything more than he is... a guy you're interested in getting to know. That's it. It's that simple. Right now, there's nothing more. OK?

So, now that you're relaxing back into "regular people" mode, people who just naturally talk to other people as if nothing is wrong... because nothing IS wrong, now that you're back in "regular people" mode, you can just talk to him. Right?

So, say hi on Facebook. Just talk. No need to be creepy or needy, just talk. Like saying 'hi' to someone slightly familiar you pass in the hall. Just relax.