[black_23]

This Young Lady And I Met At Church Where I Feel Was Best Place For It. I Must Say That I Am Definitely There More For god Himself than Meeting Women There, Anytime. Her And I Have Been Chatting, Talking Onto Phone, And Seeing Each Other, Weekly. She Know That I Like Her More Than A Friend And She Wants To Be Just Friends. I Figured Out How To Go By Being Both In The "wheel Of Fortune" For It's a Dozy!! I Have Been Partisipated In Several Child Funtions Asking Her To Come With Me And She Said Yes Wanting To Know Where Of The Location For That Weekend. I Have Treated Her Like An African Queen Every time She Would Come Back From Out Of Town. What Little Things Shall I Continue Showing Her That I Like Her??

[ylaira]

U may but don't hope. She may like you eventually or your not really her type at all. Statement like "WANTING TO BE JUST FRIENDS" is may or less than 50/50 chance.

There's no harm in trying so you won't wonder "what if" later. In the course of pursuance, you will gauge in time should you need to stop.Again do your best But don't hope. How long have you been trying BTW?

[starlite1]

Hi Black,

I know that you really like this woman, and she knows that, but you need to respect the fact that she just wants to be friends. Maybe over the course of time it will develop into something more, but you cannot push this. You need to accept that she is a friend only, and you cannot change her mindset. She has to be the one to do that. In the meantime, be friends, go out once in a while, but again, only as friends. In the long run, that is really the best course of action. If she decides to become more, than fine. But if not, you spare yourself the heartache of pushing to be more.

[black_23]

When I Asked Her Out The First Time It Took Her Some Time In Saying "yes" Like I Told Her Wanting To Go Out For Dinner, Play Pool(from Not Wanting To Make A Move With Her On First Date), And Seeing A Movie That She Wanted To Watch. The Olny Kicker Next Was Presenting A Tebby Bear That Was Favored Into The Color I Know She Likes And She Wanted To Watch The Movie And Hold Bear At The Same Time. Toward The Inof The Night, She Gave Me A Hug And Looks Really Forward To The Next Date... not Sure What To Present Toward Her Onto The Date?? I Was Thinking The Zoo, Art Musemum, Six Flags, Etc. Since We're Just Friends. Any Input Takers??

[Curlyben]

Blak 23, please turn OFF your Caps Lock as you are shouting at everyone.

Thank you

[Chery]

U may but dont hope. She may like u eventually or ur not really her type at all. Statement like "WANTING TO BE JUST FRIENDS" is may or less than 50/50 chance.

There's no harm in trying so u wont wonder "what if" later. In the course of pursuance, u will gauge in time should u need to stop.Again do ur best But dont hope. How long have u been trying BTW?

I meant to give you a DISAGREE rating on this one, but did not change the 'dot' and put it in the right circle.

Apparently, you don't know the rules on how to use this little orange button to rate a person's answer. AND, telling someone not to hope is surely the worst advice you can give, especially if it is just to get to know someone better and maybe closer and she has offered friendship instead of saying point-blank 'no'. So use some common sense in the future, and it wouldn't hurt to use proper english words instead of text shorts.


Sometimes it helps to read the whole story before jumping to conclusions.

[ylaira]

"Chery agrees: Telling someone to not hope is not giving good advice at all. Sorry, but you don't know what the rules of 'rating' in this comment box is for either."

He's asking "What Little Things Shall I Continue Showing Her That I Like Her?????? "I said T"here's no harm in trying so u wont wonder "what if" later. In the course of pursuance, u will gauge in time should u need to stop.Again do ur best But dont hope".

Im the first one who posted advice. I placed disagreement where it should be and why I don't agree as starlite1 quoted "you cannot change her mindset"

Please read back...

[Chery]

blak 23, please turn OFF your Caps Lock as you are shouting at everyone.

Thank you

Thank you Curly... right on your toes as usual. How are you all doing? Please say hi to CBW and that we would love to see her in the 'Binky Bunny' room at the lounge. (OOPS, sorry, meant the Bunny Binky Room)

[ylaira]

I meant to give you a DISAGREE rating on this one, but did not change the 'dot' and put it in the right circle.

Apparently, you don't know the rules on how to use this little orange button to rate a person's answer. AND, telling someone not to hope is surely the worst advice you can give, especially if it is just to get to know someone better and maybe closer and she has offered friendship instead of saying point-blank 'no'. So use some common sense in the future, and it wouldn't hurt to use proper english words instead of text shorts.

Our man here said "She Know That I Like Her More Than A Friend And She Wants To Be Just Friends"and asking [I]"What Little Things Shall I Continue Showing Her That I Like Her??????" [/I]It means the girl maybe subtlely turning him down. Thats the common sense. She may change mind in future that's why our man here is asking what to do.

[Chery]

When I Asked Her Out The First Time It Took Her Some Time In Saying "yes" Like I Told Her Wanting To Go Out For Dinner, Play Pool(from Not Wanting To Make A Move With Her On First Date), And Seeing A Movie That She Wanted To Watch. The Olny Kicker Next Was Presenting A Tebby Bear That Was Favored Into The Color I Know She Likes And She Wanted To Watch The Movie And Hold Bear At The Same Time. Toward The Inof The Nite, She Gave Me A Hug And Looks Really Forward To The Next Date...not Sure What To Present Toward Her Onto The Date??? I Was Thinking The Zoo, Art Musemum, Six Flags, Etc. Since We're Just Friends. Any Input Takers ????????

Don't worry about presents. Just go out and have some good clean fun and get to know each other. Talk a lot about things you both like to do and see and enjoy your friendship and time together. Relax.. don't be in such a hurry and things will happen in time. Even if it does not go further, at least you've won a new friend and they are hard enough to come by.

As Curlyben said, no need to Capitalize everything - it's too much work. Be cool and calm about dating, writing, and just life in general.

[Alty]

Our man here said "She Know That I Like Her More Than A Friend And She Wants To Be Just Friends"and asking [I]"What Little Things Shall I Continue Showing Her That I Like Her??????" [/I]It means the girl maybe subtlely turning him down. Thats the common sense. She may change mind in future thats why our man here is asking what to do.

Ylaira, please see rules and regs, disagrees are only for factually incorrect posts, not for opinions that you disagree with. You aren't a newbie, you should the rules by now. Also, chat speak is forbidden, use proper english, full words, you are not being charged by the letter, so go crazy and use them all. Thank you.

[ylaira]

Ylaira, please see rules and regs, disagrees are only for factually incorrect posts, not for opinions that you disagree with. You aren't a newbie, you should the rules by now. Also, chat speek is forbidden, use proper english, full words, you are not being charged by the letter, so go crazy and use them all. Thank you.

Thanks for choosing your words well.

[Chery]

This Young Lady And I Met At Church Where I Feel Was Best Place For It. I Must Say That I Am Definitely There More For god Himself than Meeting Women There, Anytime. Her And I Have Been Chatting, Talking Onto Phone, And Seeing Each Other, Weekly. She Know That I Like Her More Than A Friend And She Wants To Be Just Friends. I Figured Out How To Go By Being Both In The "wheel Of Fortune" For Its A Dozy!!!! I Have Been Partisipated In Several Child Funtions Asking Her To Come With Me And She Said Yes Wanting To Know Where Of The Location For That Weekend. I Have Treated Her Like An African Queen Everytime She Would Come Back From Out Of Town. What Little Things Shall I Continue Showing Her That I Like Her??????

Just a reminder of original post...
black_23, remember what Curleyben said about not needing to use Caps, and just relax and let your God and nature take it's course. Making new friends can be just as satisfying as finding a new love. Just be patient and maybe you'll find that this lady can be both. Just don't act needy or it will scare her away.

Again, Good luck.

P.S. Thanks Alty!