[MANDMO 91]

Well I am starting to see this guy and last week he asked me if he could kiss me and I said for him to wait a week so I could make sure things were over with me and this other guy 100% (me and this other guy never dated he liked me a lot and I said I would see... but I don't feel the same for him anymore long story lol) lol anyway this guy was so polite and said he wouldn't mind at all. So it has been a week and he keeps hinting he wants to kiss me, and I want him too! I am 17 and I have nevr had a boyfriend or a first kiss before! So I am really nervous because I don't know what to do, and he has had toher girl friends before so he knows what he is doing! I don't want to embarrass myself ! I know it isn't going to be perfect but are there some any tips? Please help me!

[JoeCanada76]

Let him put his lips on your lips. Let him lead a bit. Hopefully he is not sloppy. Most woman enjoy man who kiss softly and gently. Believe me when the right time happens it will come naturally. Try to avoid the old bang on the nose to nose lol.

Best wishes.

[wataboutnow]

Naturally it is the guys job to make the move so move in some of the way, and let him do the rest. He will not care if you are a bad kisser, one hint though eyes closed.

[kimdeelee]

It will come to u naturally but let him lead

[nova225]

be honest and tell him this is your first kiss... most guys love to be the girls "first" in any situation. He will understand that you have never kissed before, and you won't put sooo much pressure on yourself. I agree will all ^ that it does come natural... good luck.

[stranger79]

Close your eyes and enjoy the kiss

[jrsg]

Haha, I've done the ol' nose bump before! Lol

Close your eyes and move in!
Let him know that it will be your first kiss though. Everybody is right, he will love to be your first kiss. If he is a good guy, he will understand and won't pressure you into kissing. I'm sure he is a good guy though, otherwise you wouldn't be seeing him.

[ylaira]

Great things start from small beginning.-MILO CHOCOLATE DRINK aka Practice makes perfect.

[gretchenshae55]

I mean I am on the same pace just wait if it is right you will do it good and natural

[growing_up]

Hey
I know how you feel, first kisses are scary. I think it's a good idea to be alone but not really alone. Like, don't have it in front of lots of people cause its another thing to worry about, being watched. If you are alone you can relax more. On that note though, don't be so alone that there is nobody around anywhere. My first kiss was at a party but in his room so afterwards I could talk to my friends and there were people there. It comes naturally, just don't try and be to full on and take it slow. Try to kind of suck back your saliva so you don't slober over him and make sure your breath is fresh. It will really be fine, just make sure you aren't freaking out because then you will be all stiff and not relaxed. Let him know you aren't experienced, he will like it if anything! Good luck, let us know how it goes!

[growing_up]

Also, don't have your expectations too high. It won't be like it is in the movies, but it can still be really good.

[brkfstatiffs]

Don't be nervous, the more you think about the more akward it will be for the both of you. Just let it happen. And remember... no teeth! Hahah

[_Baby_Penguin_]

Let him know its OK to kiss you... let him guide... never having been kissed before isn't something to be embarrassed about, and it will come naturally in a way... and if nothing else, tell him you've never been kissed before so you don't really know what you're doing if he's as sweet as you say he is he'll understand and hell "show" you what you're doing...

[shade8]

Kisses come naturally just stay calm and let it happen. After the first kiss it becomes a natural thing.