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Dallasboy · Jul 7, 2008, 06:36 AM

My ex came over to my place last night. We have been broken up for two months or so. We talk every couple of days. I’m just really now letting go of the relationship, but I still have the fence straddled if I want her back or not. Well we had dinner last night we had a couple of drinks and one thing led to another. It was great probably the best we had ever, but soon after we finished she got up and left. She said she felt kind of bad, but didn't explain why. What should I think? Does she want to be back together? Any ladies out there can help me out on this one. What should I do should I just leave it alone all together?

MsMewiththat · Jul 7, 2008, 06:47 AM

Question, who broke up with who and what was the reason?

Applejacks83irv · Jul 7, 2008, 07:13 AM

She miss the sex da! Just go with it and act cool about it! and like it don't bug you? Then she might start to think! What's up with you? And might want to know what's going on in your world?. do you want her back?

bigbird213 · Jul 7, 2008, 07:36 AM

Not a good decision, but what is done is done now, not much you can go back and do about it now. She probably feels really vulnerable after opening herself up to you like that. You two aren't together and she just gave up everything she had and is probably feeling pretty low.

If you are "just now letting go" of the relationship, its time to man up and decide what it is you want. Don't go out to dinner and sleep with her if you haven't decided that you want to stay together. It isn't fair to her.

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Sooner or later, you will have to make a decision for yourself, and stop straddling the fence. You two are not over each other, and won't be for a while, especially since your still DATING each other.

I'm just really now letting go of the relationship,

I don't believe it! I think your just accepting the circumstances, and will remain in contact. That's cool, just be honest with yourselves.

Dallasboy · Jul 7, 2008, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by MsMewiththat

Question, who broke up with who and what was the reason?

She broke up with me.The only reason she gave me was I don't make her happy anymore.Wich to me means she had somebody else.

N0help4u · Jul 7, 2008, 08:19 AM

It doesn't necessarily mean that she has somebody else
She could just felt like the relationship is not/can not go anywhere so why keep it going.
So you want to get back with her but don't know if she is interested in getting back?
You would need to think about the issues that broke you up and ask her if she wants to get back. If she says yes she is/would consider it then you need to discuss with her how to handle the problems differently so you don't end up in the same predicament.

Otherwise drop it with NC

Applejacks83irv · Jul 7, 2008, 08:27 AM

Your free!! Oh right! So now its time to party and find you some fine azz girls with low selfsteam and play the dating game! And yes there is always someone else! And as for your girl? Her lost! Well your ex girl

MsMewiththat · Jul 7, 2008, 08:57 AM

I would say that she is using you for the extra curricular, if you know what I mean! Sometimes when realtionships end, we tend to hang on, for one reason or another. Here one reason might be it's good, or it could be that she doesn't have anyone else to share those intimate moments with and doesn't want to go without. However, it's all her problem, don't make it yours. If she can come back for that, you are clearly making her happy in one way or s he would not come back. Question to ask yourself... is it enough? Do you want to be used in that way? Some would say use me up, no problem. But if you really want to see where things stand leave her alone and let her decide what happy really is?