[kochi]

My girlfriend has always had problems with sexuality and orgasms. Our sex encounters have usually been about me doing me "thing,' and her "giving" me sex. Its never been about us.


She recently asked me to help her somehow to resolve this issue.
She feels no much in terms of sensation and she usually feels pain and dries up pretty quick. She does not like foreplay, nor does she like me to do much else other than "finish up."

I think a lot of it is psychological, she feels like there is something wrong with her (she never is in the mood cause it usually not as pleasing to her.)

How do I convince her that there is nothing wrong with her (alot of women go through this.)

Are there any ladies that that have been through similar expericences that have any insight.

I know she needs not to be under any pressure. It has to be enjoyable, and there has to be foreplay etc. In other words, I am experienced ( I think), but I know a lot has to do with the woman as well. So any shared or similar experiences would help.

THanks.

[hjpan]

Orgasm?

Well, fingering and oral works... nothing else except sex toys.. lol

[Choux]

Depending what culture she is from... I think there is something wrong with her.. like deep psychological problems for totally rejecting her sexuality.

My answer is based on the assumption that she is over 21.