[ch00ch00]

How do I tell if the person I love is looseing feelings for me??

[liz28]

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[liz28]

You can tell by their actions toward you because actions speak louder words. For examples:
* If they use to call everyday, but now you bearly getting a call once a week and they are short with you, could be it.
*If your use to spending time with each other but bearly see each other, it might mean it.

If the person has no busy work schedule and no other issues going on their life but avoid you, this to can mean it.

I would voice my concerns to this person to be sure that its this and nothing else.After hearing what is said make a decision on what to do, if it can be work out then work on any problems because if you feeling in your gut something is wrong, then most likely there is. Remember communication is the key and its up to the two people involved to make a relationship work.

How long your been together and how have they been acting lately vs the past? Mainly, why do you feel this way?

[ch00ch00]

Well of that's been going on lot lately!! like she complained to me about not talken to her on the phone as much as we use to,because like the first two months of are relationship we were on the phone like 4 t0 5 hours a day plus txt msg and on myspace.she tld me it was myfault so this last month i would be txt msg her and i asked her several times lately if she wanted to talk on the fone or go somewhere and each time she has the worst reasons she don't have time! Like once i asked her and she said no because she was playing a game! Or watching a movie on on damand! Then she got mad at me because i was tired and it was 4am in the morning and i had to be up at 6:30am she wanted to talk on the fone and i told her no! Then she yelled you never have time for me after that we just got off the phone.

[confused1145]

Sounds to me that she's not very understanding. Try discussing your feelings with her and ask how she feels about you. All you can really do now is speak with her and see how things end up.

[ch00ch00]

Yea I tried that but a lot of times she will try to avoid the comversation. Or doenst understand or see wast she is doing wrong,w had also ben having different problems that's been bringing us a part further and further