
Originally Posted by
MC12545
Ok. im going through a serious of waired thoughts and depressed about a situation with my ex girlfriend.
You're depressed and going through many thoughts about your ex girlfriend.. Doesn't this show it is time to stop thinking about it and try getting on with the things that you want to do for now?

Originally Posted by
MC12545
We where together for 21/2 years..
I thought you meant 21 and a half years here but anyway..

Originally Posted by
MC12545
I beg her back and I did everything possible but she wouldnt take me back she said she wanted to be by herself and was hurt.
A clear mistake.. Never beg and act desperate for the other to take you back, I can guarantee it never works, no matter how tempting it may seem. All you can do is give them space to breathe and think about it themselves.

Originally Posted by
MC12545
In april she invited me over for dinner and wanted to work things out. I was really excited that she was giving me a 2nd chance. i decided to tell her that im a changed man and that things will get better. throughout the time we where working things out i felt that she was not giving it her all into this. She was being cold about certain things.like calling me and all.
One minute she wants to work things out, another minute she changes her mind. She is confused with how she is feeling, whether she wants you, or just wants you as a friend, or perhaps she just told you she wants to work things out to keep you here, as she doesn't want to lose you as a friend or having you to talk to. If that is the case, you need to question whether you are happy with that..

Originally Posted by
MC12545
she doesnt feel the same/ shes confused and that she is concentrating on herself right now.
Tada! She has confirmed she is confused. GIVE HER SPACE and in the meantime keep yourself busy as well. Go out and partake in activities, go and meet friends, take your mind off her. All you can do is be patient for her to make her decision.

Originally Posted by
MC12545
After that she still calls me and text me to see how im doing.
She may just see you as a friend. She doesn't want you completely out of her life, but this doesn't mean that she wants a relationship right now. If she's saying she needs space, but she is still calling you, it is perhaps showing she has made up her mind and just wants you as a friend, someone to talk to. It sucks, but again, you need to question whether you are happy with that option if it is the case...

Originally Posted by
MC12545
I dont know what to do. does she still have feelings for me? what would u guys think is going to be the outcome of this?
Right now, I would not get your hopes up about her calling you etc. My conclusion is to take some time to yourself, go out, try and enjoy yourself, and take your mind off her. Perhaps you could stop answering her calls, and if she questions this, remind her that she has said she wants space to think about both of you and you respect that. She needs to know if being with you is actually what she wants, or whether she just wants you as a friend, (which I think is more likely by the sounds of things, that's my opinion). You need to prepare for the worst, therefore you won't be completely shock/disapointed if she does let you down. As I said, for now, take time to yourself while she has her space. If her 'space' goes on for way too long and it becomes obvious that she is stringing you along.. then please move on with your life rather than keep hoping for the past and go NC. She can't have her cake and eat it too.
Goodluck.