[Luvo]

Hi, Usually I'm a mature person but I really need to get some outside advise.

I don't know why but I Can't Stop thinking about having a baby! I even have dreams about it. Does every girl go through this? Why is this happening?

My situation is: Im 19 soon and my boyfriend (of many years) and I are buying a house at the end of the year and we have not yet gone over seas. He is always saying "baby if you ever get pregnant i would be so happy"

Idealy I wanted to go over seas, paid of heaps of our house and build a career before having kids but kids seem more important to me than my career though 2 years ago I was eager to have my career first.

Will I get past this stage? What should I do?

[rsain2004]

I worked 37 years, through 5 passports, as an expatriate. Having a child will change your life forever. "Daughters never leave home, Sons never come back..." Be very careful, at your age you need to keep your freedom as much as possible, for further advancement. A maternal instinct is normal and natural... so temper it with intelligence.

[SaraD86]

Well I was in the same situation when I was your age
And after a few months I didn't think about having a baby I had too much going on in my life I wasn't ready to handle a child