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    Jun 19, 2008, 05:51 PM
    Erection problem...
    Hey guys I've seen quite a few people with that problem on the forum but unfortunately at the end of the post, poster didn't tell us if they got it fixed.

    Anyway here is my problem and I know its just that but I would like some advice so it doesn't happen. When it come to a new girl I'm always really anxious and I just can't get an erection and now that I broke few weeks ago with the girl I was with for 8 years "had the erection problem with her aswell back then", so I was wondering if anyone know something that could help me get hard even if I am really stressed I have been thinking about viagra for couple of first few time with her so I get to know her more and the stresse will go away, I am not someone that can't get hard I just have hard time when it come to a new girl because my ex girlfriend was just teasing me and 2 second later I was hard like crazy.

    So what I am looking for is something that will work even if I'm really stressed just for a start lets say. So any advice on medication,herb pills that could do the trick are welcome.
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    Jun 19, 2008, 05:56 PM
    Hello Mx:

    There IS better living through chemistry. That little blue pill will give you the jolt you need... Plus, when you get your jollies, it's muuuuuuch better.

    excon
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:04 PM
    For my age, I wish I had discovered the little blue pill years and years ago, With it, well it is better now than when I was 20.

    But now that is if and when you have a medical issue and need it.

    I will say I tried a new over the counter item called Zyrexin, while not quite as good it was great.

    But also for nerves, the main thing is just don't have sex with them till you are really ready, get to know them for along time so you feel completely at ease with them.
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:05 PM
    Ok so that would allow me to get an erection even under high stress you think brother?
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Hello again, Mx:

    Dude, it'll give you an erection when you talk to her on the phone.

    excon
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    For my age, I wish I had discovered the little blue pill years and years ago, With it, well it is better now than when I was 20.

    but now that is if and when you have a medical issue and need it.

    I will say I tried a new over the counter item called Zyrexin, while not quite as good it was great.

    But also for nerves, the main thing is just don't have sex with them till you are really ready, get to know them for along time so you feel completely at ease with them.
    Yeah I agree to this but I am ready I'm just that kind of guy that want it to be awsome I know I'm good on the bed and stuff I just care too much about all sort of things and that girl is kind of wild I kind of feel intimidated by her and that cause me stresse.
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:12 PM
    It would give him one most likely thinking about her mother even, hard not to get one. But so much as for a doctor getting it for you, I moved here to Atlanta about 6 months ago, well my first doctor here would not write it for me, guess what, I got another new doctor who does.
    Now at about 15 dollars a pill, if your insurance does not pay for it.
    ** unless you are in Canada where it is a lot cheaper I understand.

    But being young and it only being nerves, the doctor most likely should not write it, to be honest, but also being honest, some doctors will write about anything also.
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon
    Hello again, Mx:

    Dude, it'll give you an erection when you talk to her on the phone.

    excon
    Yeah I guess I will give it a try how long does it take for a doctor to give me a sample or make me a prescription
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    Jun 19, 2008, 06:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    it would give him one most likely thinking about her mother even, hard not to get one. But so much as for a doctor getting it for you, I moved here to Atlanta about 6 months ago, well my first doctor here would not write it for me, guess what, I got another new doctor who does.
    Now at about 15 dollars a pill, if your insurance does not pay for it.
    ** unless you are in Canada where it is alot cheaper I understand.

    But being young and it only being nerves, the doctor most likely should not write it, to be honest, but also being honest, some doctors will write about anything also.
    I am actually living in Canada Quebec... :P guess what time for a visite to doctor

    Edit: by the way thanks for the talk folks I really apreciate that and it make me more confident that I will succeed!
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    Jun 20, 2008, 10:55 AM
    I have to say I was always a little shy when I was with a man the first time unless I was overcome with passion. The first time usually wasn't that good for me.

    Perhaps, you are the same way?
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    Jun 20, 2008, 02:23 PM
    Performance anxiety is not at all uncommon when being with a new girl. Especially if you're worried about making everything "perfect." So here's my advice to overcome it. First, drink plenty of water. Too much alcohol will give you "whiskey " and be problematic. Second, abstain from masturbating. It will make your mind and body enjoy her touch more.

    Consider herbal help. Biotics Research makes a great product called Argizyme, which helps without any of the negative ED drug side effects like flushing, bloodshot eyes, headache, etc.

    Finally, consider asking your doctor for an ED drug. When I met my wife, I was so concerned that the night be perfect that I asked my doctor for help. I told him "she's the one! I can't mess this up." So he gave me a sample pack for Levitra. I'm glad that I did.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 02:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon
    Hello again, Mx:

    Dude, it'll give you an erection when you talk to her on the phone.

    excon
    AGREES! He knows what he's talking about!

    You could ask your doctor for a sample, I myself like Cialias better than Viagra simply because the window of opportunity is much much larger than with Viagra.

    On the other hand, Viagra did seem to produce firmer results, but wears off rather quickly, while Cialias allows up to 36 hours, and even works multiple times in that 36 hour period.

    The other posts are right too, a strong emotional connection will do wonders for your problem as well.
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    Jun 21, 2008, 02:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by progunr
    AGREES! He knows what he's talking about!!

    You could ask your doctor for a sample, I myself like Cialias better than Viagra simply because the window of opportunity is much much larger than with Viagra.

    On the other hand, Viagra did seem to produce firmer results, but wears off rather quickly, while Cialias allows up to 36 hours, and even works multiple times in that 36 hour period.

    The other posts are right too, a strong emotional connection will do wonders for your problem as well.
    Yeah in last resort I would use pills but if I can do without I will. I'm going to try the not masturbate for awhile and try to relaxe more.

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