[exbestfriend]

Hi I was just wondering when will be the safest day or week to have you know with my partne... we always use condoms and we wanter to try not using them but I'm not yet taking pills though... so I was just wondering how it like you know with condoms but I'm just so curious how do we know its safe? Don't worry guys I'm 24 I'm not minor here is that I don't know whome to ask...

[pyramid girl]

hi i was just wondering when will be the safest day or week to have you know with my partne... we always use condoms and we wanter to try not using them but im not yet taking pills though ... so i was just wondering how it like u know with condoms but im just so curious how do we know its safe? dont worry guys im 24 im not minor here is that i dont know whome to ask....

Hi, exbest friend
Count ten days including the first day of your period this is the safest to have S... and 10 days after that is the dangerous period. Once you passed this period then it safe again, to have S...

I guarantee you it works, I used this for almost 15 years,and until now.
I don't use any contraceptives anymore.

[StephanyM]

Well, the safest way would be to use a condom until you start birth control but if you know when you ovulate then you can "try to" avoid sex on those days. Most women ovulate 14 days before their next period is due and they have a 2-5 day window of getting pregnant since sperm can live a few days inside you.

[exbestfriend]

Wow okey so generally its also not safe before the period start right ?for example 5 days before... hmmm but usually I'm not that exact sometimes I'm over a week before I had my period... thanks so much yeah I heard a lot of side effects for contraception but eventually I think I need to consult a ob about it just to make sure also but for now I will try this thanks so much pyramid girl

[Alty]

Every women is different and ovulates at different times, so there is no "safe" time to have unprotected sex. Get on the pill, use a condom, and don't have unprotected sex until you are ready to have a child.

[exbestfriend]

Girls thanks so much for the replies trully appreciated...

[Fr_Chuck]

Agreed, there is no safe time, even with condoms there is about a 10 percent chance of failure, and people can and have gotten pregnant using condoms and the pill.