Mbell1960,
Tough time for you two parents.
But in my opinion, it is not a time that you are required to "be strong" for your daughter.
I think it is well for her to know you are very concerned and that you will be there with her through all that it takes for her to heal. Neither of you should, in my opinion, beat up on yourselves, not your husband either, but the entire family can rally together for the healing and growth that is needed.
You have received comments about counseling. That resource should help to identify issues that may be related to the cutting. You and your family, as suggested by the counselor, and the counselor can work on those issues.
Both you and your daughter seem to be headed in the right direction. She followed directions to talk to her parents. And her mom is reaching out for help. I, for one, am proud of you both!
Blessings for healing and growth.
Disclaimer: These comments are not provided for, nor are they intended for use as, professional therapy or counseling. Anyone implementing any ideas from this material assumes full responsibility for the results of doing so.
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