Do I contact her ?

damaged · Jun 12, 2008, 12:08 PM

My Ex left me once for about a month... I got used to being without him and was hanging out with friends and was moving on... Then he came back telling me it would never happened again.. blah blah blah... I accepted him... now he dumped me again!. fool me once shame on you, fool me twice SHAME ON ME!. w.e... I'm better off without him any ways!. :D

srulik86 · Jun 12, 2008, 12:26 PM

Yes u are! My ex dumped me 3 times - ALL BY TEXT! What does that make me? Hahaha

f104 · Jun 12, 2008, 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by damaged

my Ex left me once for about a month...i got used to being without him and was hanging out with friends and was moving on...Then he came back telling me it would never happened again..blah blah blah...I accepted him...now he dumped me again!!...fool me once shame on you, fool me twice SHAME ON ME!!!...w.e...i'm better off without him any ways!!!...:D

Yes it sounds like yor are better off without him.

srulik86 · Jun 12, 2008, 12:51 PM

We are all better off without people are aren't going to give as much as we do!

bigbird213 · Jun 12, 2008, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by srulik86

we are all better off without people are arent gonna give as much as we do!

There is a DJ on a morning show around here who has mentioned, more than once, that there is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship. He claims that all relationships are 55/45 or 60/40 etc etc...

He states that it is never good to be the higher end person - you should always be the one on the lower side. Now I'm sure some of you will disagree, and state that 50/50 relationships do exist (as in each person cares equally, one person doesn't love more or better than the other), but the point is the same. If you love more than someone else, you have more to lose and therefore are in a worse position...

Not sure I buy the argument, but its something that makes you think.

f104 · Jun 12, 2008, 01:14 PM

bigbird213 I am not sure I like that point of view either even if the DJ was right. Sounds like he has been burnt too.

I get so intense when I like someone I cannot imagine ever being the one on the lower side.

srulik86 · Jun 12, 2008, 01:22 PM

Me too. At first I am always the one that is the higher and not as fussed, then usually one day I switch and become very intense... something I really need to work on.

damaged · Jun 12, 2008, 01:30 PM

For some reason I agree with that DJ... my mom told me all the time.. He who loves more, looses more... & I think its true... In my opinionn 1 person loves or is more committed than the other one---->l.. I guess I was the higher end person.:rolleyes:
Next time I need to be the one on the lower side...

f104 · Jun 12, 2008, 01:35 PM

I too always start at the lower end but as soon as they tell me they love me then I totally flip the other way.

damaged · Jun 12, 2008, 01:40 PM

I feel you!. lol

srulik86 · Jun 13, 2008, 07:40 AM

At the moment I'm going through the anger stage! I keep getting angry every time I think about her... angry at how she used me, how she let this go and how she just doenst realise! I think I'm on te right trac to recovery :)

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 07:45 AM

I know how you feel...
Wait till she realizes what she lost!.

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 07:49 AM

Yes I think you are on the right track to recovery. Now get out there and hand out those flyers and get those posters up sport ; )

srulik86 · Jun 13, 2008, 08:47 AM

Haha cheers buddy! Well I did it! I managed to get all the posters up! At long last! Keep staying strong buddy! As for her realising she claims she did realise what she lost 2 months ago when she started breaking down in tears in front of me... obviously she didn't REALLY realise and I hope someday she does and when she does ill reject her!. hopefully!

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 08:49 AM

srulik86 I hear you mate, hear you lound and clear.

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 10:13 AM

Well put Sadsack.

srulik86 · Jun 13, 2008, 11:08 AM

Exactly! I wudnt want to her back. And if I'm honest I just want her to be feelinmg ty like I am feeling! If I knoew she was feeling like crap then id be happy... wel not happy... but at least id feel something other than what I'm feeling.

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 11:20 AM

I know.. I don't wish bad things to other people because I'm not like that.. but I think they deserve to feel like we feel... Is not a good feeling at all... but you know what don't worry about it, because right now they may be laughing or w.e but one day they will go through this crap... then they will realize how we felt... KARMA baby!. (*evil laugh*)

Just so you know: Im a dork!. lol

srulik86 · Jun 13, 2008, 11:22 AM

Hahaha your the best dork there is! Uve just put a smile on my face!

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 11:24 AM

Awww.. thx... always glad to help :D