[classicrocker]

Thought id drop in and tell you all about my good night. I went to my buddys, sister's graduation. It was great seeing familiar faces considering I graduated last year. Anyway as ou may know graduations can be long and boring unless you're a parent shedding tears for their child or young adult. Anyway me and my buddy met two girls outside the gates of the graduation ceremony. They didn't have tickets and couldn't get in. We talked to them and decided we would walk over and get some food. Long story short we end up hanging out for a few hours and getting their numbers. So like cuff said awhile ago, there are people interested in you out their, but you won't see them unless your ready to.

[jpm247]

Good news classic,

You are right. I'm sure there are people out there, you've just got to be in the right place at the right time to find it.

I still haven't found anyone that floats my boat yet, but I'm just going with the flow, and doing my own thing now. Been jive dancing for 3 months now, and its great fun. Gets me out meeting new people.

Been the hardest 6 months of my life post breakup, but I'm determined to come out stronger, and will I'm sure one day meet someone special again.

Keep up the good work all, I read all the posts, you guys are great.

[f104]

I was watching Fraiser as i was falling asleep tonight and he dropped this quote from Sigmund Freud... Caught my ears right away! It just proves that the way all of us are feeling is normal. Kinda cheesy again but what can I say, these things make me feel better, and hopefully they can for someone else.


"We are never so helplessly unhappy as when we lose love." -SIGMUND FREUD

I love Frasier. That quote is so appropriate. Good one!

[damaged]

"We are never so helplessly unhappy as when we lose love." -SIGMUND FREUD

I agree with Freud!!

[f104]

Morning fellow travelers on the road of NC. If it was not for you all I would have totally attempted to call my ex ha! Thanks to you all I have had NC since Monday morning and although I miss her and at times feel lonely I know I can come here and vent. I also admit that not contacting her gives me a feeling of control over my actions and thoughts which is important in my recovery process. I even iM a guy from this site who is going through a situation almost exactly the same as mine. AGain thanks to you all.

[damaged]

Its FRIDAY 13th:eek:

How are you all??

[f104]

OH chite so it is! Actually I think this Friday will be better than last Friday as that was when, looking back that things started to go a little weird with my ex.

[damaged]

I'm glad it will be better!!

[jpm247]

Its FRIDAY 13th:eek:

How are you all???

Not too bad thanks, had a bit of a moment earlier, just thinking of my ex. Still miss her really, but just moving on as best as I can. May go out tonight with a couple of mates, and looking forward to the weekend. How you been doing?

[starlite1]

I love that quote! How true that statement is!

I love Frasier too. Also I have a love for Seattle. I took myself away in the summer of 2005 after the first breakup with E and I and it was so beautiful there and very theraputic. It only rained once! LOL! If you all ever need a break from where you live, go to Seattle. I can't describe it, or really know exactly what it was that made me feel good, it's just beautiful though. I guess that is another reason why the locals refer to it as the 'Emerald City'. I don't know :)

[starlite1]

thought id drop in and tell you all about my good night. I went to my buddys, sister's graduation. It was great seeing familiar faces considering i graduated last year. Anyways as ou may know graduations can be long and boring unless your a parent shedding tears for their child or young adult. anyways me and my buddy met two girls outside the gates of the graduation ceremony. they didnt have tickets and couldnt get in. We talked to them and decided we would walk over and get some food. long story short we end up hanging out for a few hours and getting their numbers. So like cuff said awhile ago, their are people interested in you out their, but you wont see them unless your ready to.

Good for you, Rocker! :) I am glad to see that you are out having fun, and meeting people.

[damaged]

I've been doing Okay... for some reason I miss him :(... but its okay, I know things will get better.. I HATE THIS!! :(

[f104]

I've been doing Okay...for some reason i miss him :( ....but its okay, i know things will get better..I HATE THIS!!!!!! :(

Yes they will get better and eventually you will meet a man who deserves you. Of course that is of little comfort at the moment. Are you able to spend time with friends over the weekend? Have you had the chance to spoil yourself with say ice cream of something that you really enjoy. I think it is important that we treat ourselves during this time.

Star I used to live in Seattle it is a cool town.

Good to see Rocker is getting out and about. You go mate!

[jpm247]

Its certainly not easy. First experience of a breakup, and I was in deep so feel like I lost a lot. But in the end, they let us go, so it's their loss, and our chance to find someone who is better and will really appreciate us for who we are. Def not a quick way out, but I'm going out and trying to meet new people etc. no pressure, id rather be single than just rebound with nothing to give to another relationship.

We should all get out and in the mix over the weekend, put smiles on those faces!

[starlite1]

Hi Guys,

Jpm - You are taking a great approach! It is great that you are going out there and trying to meet new people! Good for you! Like you said, take your time, a rebound relationship is not the best thing, you are right. Go have fun this weekend!

Damaged - I'm sorry you are feeling down. I know, I am missing my ex too. I hate these sad feelings that we all have. It really sucks (to put it mildly).

F104 - Are you from Washington? Yes, Seattle is very cool! I was only there for a week, but what an impact it made :)

[jpm247]

It is up and down.

Some days your up, then something just halts you, and your down. It is a rollercoaster, but you've just got to hang on, as the end of the ride will be a great place to get too!

[starlite1]

it is up and down.

some days your up, then something just halts you, and your down. it is a rollercoaster, but you've just got to hang on, as the end of the ride will be a great place to get too!

I like that analogy, JPM, thank you :) and I hope the end of the ride is near LOL!

[damaged]

Yes they will get better and eventually you will meet a man who deserves you. Of course that is of little comfort at the moment. Are you able to spend time with friends over the weekend? Have you had the chance to spoil yourself with say ice cream of something that you really enjoy. I think it is important that we treat ourselves during this time.

Thanks for the support... :)

I barely hang out with my friends... They're always busy.. w.e... most of the time I do things by myself... I don't mind but sometimes it gets to me... im usually pretty happy, but I have those sucky days when I feel down and kind of lonely but that's normal... ne ways I know this will soon pass... :o

[damaged]

It deff is a ROLLERCOASTER RIDE!. but we know everything will be okay at the end...

[jpm247]

Thanx for the support...:)

I barely hang out with my friends...They're always busy..w.e...most of the time i do things by myself...i dont mind but sometimes it gets to me...im usually pretty happy, but i have those sucky days when i feel down and kinda lonely but thats normal...ne ways i know this will soon pass... :o

Yep, I think we all know what you mean about the sucky times. Just have to put a brave face on, and dig deep, knowing that in the end, the good times will be back around that corner.