[andy305mia]

I miss my ex and she broke up with me 4 no reason. We loved each other. That's what I thought. We never fought. But she still threw it all away. I don't think she cares for me any more but baby ill be hear when you need me. And ill never forget u.
How do I forget my past its driving me crazy how much I love my ex

[mrchef1110]

First of all you need to take out the "I'll be here when you need me." That is not good for your healing you need to get it in your head that you two are over and there is nothing you can do about it.

Once you accept that you will be in a much better place and in so doing you will start to focus on yourself. This phase is vital for this phase itself will set the tone for how fast and how easily the break up will be. Although it probably will be pretty slow, time will heal the wounds you are feeling right now.

And wheter you want to believe it or not she broke up with you for a reason. That is only known to her but you don't need to know that. Reflect on the relationship and grow as it is only through failing multiple times that we learn to succeed.

[starlite1]

Hi Andy,

What exactly happened? If you want, you may want to provide some more detail about the relationship and how it came down to the breakup. This way we can provide more help to you.

[mafiaangel180]

Hi Andy, I'm sorry this has happened. Unfortunately, there is almost always a reason they dump us. They are just too chicken to say what it is. And ask yourself this... In the long run, do you want someone who would play with your heart like that anyway? Or do you deserve more? We really don't forget our past, but little by little, day by day, it hurts less. And it gets easier to cope. To help the process along, it would be wise to get involved in some activities that aid to your well being. Such as going to the gym, walking off stress, reading, hell even video games, whatever. Do things you know she hated, that might empower you. ;)

[zoe12345]

It can help if you read some of the 10 steps to getting over someone or after breakup tips posted on this website. They helped me a ton when me and my boyfriend broke up

[Romefalls19]

Andy,

It's time to pick your manhood up off the floor(yes tough love) You made this girl the center of the world... News flash! YOU'RE the center of your world. You probably became to clingy and needy, she felt suffocated and bounced on you. You say it was out of nowhere? Well welcome to break ups, 90% of them are out of nowhere to the dumpee(everyone agree?) She probably has been thinking about this for awhile now and you did something that broke the camels back. You are probably calling/texting her all the time, putting sad away messages up, myspace status are "i miss you" THIS IS NOT HELPING! No girl wants to be with a little B*tch, they want a guy who is strong and confident,what you are displaying now is what my 4 year old cousin does when he doesn't get what he wants. Man up, stop with the sad aways or texts messages to her. Simply erase from her life and start healing. Don't call, write, or any contact at all. Delete her number, myspace, screen name, cut the cord to the tin can if that's how you contact her! Let's get straight to healing