Please help me!

Jessica1616 · Jun 22, 2004, 12:24 PM

Like 5 days ago... my boyfriend asked me to touch his . So I did... for like 5 seconds I slipped my hand under his shorts and just placed my hand on it... I don't think he came or anything BTU about an hour later when I got home I fingered myself and now I think I may be pregnet... is this possible or am I just being paranoid... please help me..?

Scorpio848 · Jun 22, 2004, 12:50 PM

In the first place, if you can't tell whether or not he came, you have no business doing anything sexual. You are obviously too young. Second, if you thing you can get pregnant by masturbating, it only backs up my first point. Sounds like you need to speak with a grown up about sexual intercourse. If you do not feel comfortable talking to your parents, perhaps you could speak with a school counselor. In the future if your boyfriend wants you to touch him in his praivate area, I suggest you say no. Wait until you are properly educated on the subject and of proper age.
And in case you are still unclear, NO you are not pregnant if all you did was finger yourself. It is impossible.

Jessica1616 · Jun 22, 2004, 01:01 PM

OK , yeah I am new at this... and sorry if I was a little scared... maybe you should be a little more compassioate towards other people who are searching for help... I wasn't asking for someone to tell me how imature and stupied I was . I was looking fro someone to help me with a problem I am in right now... thankx for being a total jerk for no reason. >:(

Jessica1616 · Jun 22, 2004, 01:03 PM

O and so u no I am a sophomore in high school not some 12 year old girl

Scorpio848 · Jun 22, 2004, 01:12 PM

I apologize for being abrupt. It was not my intention to make you feel stupid. I just wanted to be VERY clear that you are too young to be entertaining the thought of sexual intercourse. If in the near future you do figure some of this out and feel comfortable having sex, please wear a condom. A sophomore in high school is no time to get pregnant. Here are some links that may answer some of your questions.

http://teensexuality.studentcenter.org/
http://www.teensource.org/?source=google_grants

And you are right. I will work on that compassionate thing.

Jessica1616 · Jun 22, 2004, 01:22 PM

Thank you for under standing