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    May 31, 2008, 08:24 AM
    I still have feelings for my ex
    My boyfriend and I broke up 5 weeks ago. I thought I would have been over him but now but I still have feelings for him. He told my friend that if we did get back together it would be in the summer, which is 3-4 weeks away. Should I tell him how I feel? When would be the best time to do this and what do I say?
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    May 31, 2008, 11:22 AM
    Hi Hun, First of all please dont beat yourself up. You have only been broken up 5 weeks, and also why should you wait around for someone who is " planning " on getting back with you in the summer. I have never heard so much nonsense in my entire life. This might sound a bit harsh but a man who thought " you were the best thing since sliced bread " would not want a minute away from you. Give yourself lots of love and NC, how old are you? And how long were you together. Why did you break up? More info please. Love GlamourBabe xx
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    May 31, 2008, 12:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourBabe
    Hi Hun, First of all please dont beat yourself up. You have only been broken up 5 weeks, and also why should you wait around for someone who is " planning " on getting back with you in the summer. I have never heard so much nonsense in my entire life. This might sound a bit harsh but a man who thought " you were the best thing since sliced bread " would not want a minute away from you. Give yourself lots of love and NC, how old are you? And how long were you together. Why did you break up? More info please. Love GlamourBabe xx


    16.. we were together for 9 months. He broke up with me because he was gettting really busy with baseball and not enough time for me. That's why he said nothing until the summer.
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    May 31, 2008, 08:52 PM
    That what he said.. and do you believe him ? Or the lies that blind ?

    I am a guy.. and if I tell my friend that " i'll TAKE HER BACK SUMMER " that mean that he seeing you as a rebound as a girl that he can get back anytime he wants and whenever he wants..

    And if he is like that ? I am sorry that I am being harsh... forget him?. go do something.. keep yourself busy and do stuff hang out with your friends so that you won't have time to think about him and you will forget him in no time...
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    Jun 1, 2008, 07:38 AM
    Went back and read your whole story, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=2835775
    And first off, do you need a guy who is to busy for you? Do you need a guy who puts you on hold, until he wants to be bothered? Come on, its only been a month, and you need more time to get over him. Do so, give yourself a break, and be patient with yourself, and do yourself a favor, get with a guy who has time for you, and wants you even during baseball season.

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