[ct1988]

I need help, I lied to this girl, I told her I am not a virgin, but I really am. I've have kind of hinted to her that I am not that experienced, but she keeps on telling me that sex is really important to her in a relationship. We are not dating but there is a chance. I am really nervous also because sometimes when I masterbate I don't get completely hard, and I can never go 2 rounds. Please help!

[twinkiedooter]

You didn't state your age for one and for two it does not matter if you lied or not. You'll make up for it once you do start having sex.

[progunr]

I got to tell you, you have to learn to bypass the fear, and be honest.

Just knowing you lied to her, is going to cause you ALL kind of problems in the bedroom.

Your brain is your biggest and most important sex organ. The clearer your mind of this type of clutter, the better you will respond and enjoy the intimate times together.

Tell her the truth, tell her that you were embarrassed to admit to being a virgin.

Then tell her how much she means to you, and because of that you could not continue with the lie. Tell her how much you would like for her to be your first (if you really do) and that you are looking forward to learning with her, how to give her the most pleasure any man ever will.

That should help clear the air.

[ct1988]

I am 20, I am a good looking kid but I am just shy. I am thinking about telling her, cause you are right progur, if I have that in my head I will just be horrible, and if I tell her then there's really no pressure.

[progunr]

A wise decision, your maturity level just jumped up, way beyond your years!

Clear the air, relaxation is key, and once this is out in the open, it will be easier for you to relax.

Best wishes to you!

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes honesty is always best.

[jessiepooh5211]

I don't know but if you are not comfortable with her I'm here and I will guide you threw it and we can go slow