[mcdowtm]

First of all me and my ex started dating in high school we dated for about 2 years we broke up because I was controlling and we stayed friends still and I changed over that year and a half we were not together and she came back for about 3 months then she left again because she said she didn't have feelings for me anymore so we are still good friends we still hang out and now she tells one of her friends that she thinks I'm a great guy and she wants to be with me but not right now. She also told me I can't sit here and say if we will be together day and she said I can't sit here and say we will be together one day. She still kisses me and it like we were together again I just don't understand please help because I really want her back forever I love her so much thanks.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Get over her, stop hanging out with her.

She gets what she wants from you, and does what she wants. She doesn't want to get back with you, or she would be with you right now.

Just leave her alone.

[cduncman19]

I agree... you need to stop giving her what she wants, which is for you to prop her up when she doesn't feel good about herself... I just went through almost 3 months of my ex telling me how she didn't want me to give up and how she loved me only to have her change her mind almost overnight and tell me that she loved someone else... she needs to either be with you or you need to move on... end this relationship or save it on your own terms, if you keep making yourself available she will string you out until she is ready for something new...

[ChihuahuaMomma]

That's exactly what I was getting at..

[talaniman]

she still kisses me and it like we were together again I just don't understand please help because I really want her back forever I love her so much thanks.

She doesn't love you, and if she did you would be together. Disappear from her life, and stop acting like her personal puppy, looking for love. Sorry guy, but there is no other way to put it.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I agree Talaninman...

[Chery]

i really want her back forever i love her so much thanks.

Sorry, but if I got 5 cents for every time I read this phrase, I'd be a millionairess right now. No matter what age-group we are talking about.

Please read the first four stickies of the Relationship Section (or the links in Talaniman's signature) and catch on that it 'aint going to happen'.

Welcome to the Upper 99% Club of human beings and our emotions. That's life and you need to deal with it.


Another thing about women.. we don't get an external 'erection' but we do have a switch in our brain that turns us on or off, once a man kills those emotions and turns that off, there is no female-viagra that will ever flick that switch on again, unless she has no feelings and gets paid for it. Get my message?
Forget this one, and better luck next time dear.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Agreed Chery, I haven't seen you around in a bit! Kind of missed you! Hope things are well!

[Chery]

Agreed Chery, I haven't seen you around in a bit! Kinda missed ya! Hope things are well!

Doing as well as I can Momma, still here and still 'me'. How have you been?

I see you still have not lost that 'touch' either dear.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Doing as well as I can Momma, still here and still 'me'. How have you been?

I see you still have not lost that 'touch' either dear.

That's great to hear! Things are well for me.