[tolongapong]

All right well I have a girlfriend that I've been dating for 5 months now. And she just now out of no where says that she wants to break up. She says that she's not ready for a relationship and that she isn't able to be herself when she's with me. What ever the hell that's supposed to mean? I'm just not sure what to do, were kind of on a break right now, which is pretty dumb I no but I just need some help on what I should do.

[JBeaucaire]

It's dumb because it wasn't your idea. You don't get to decide if someone can breakup with you or not, it's clearly not even necessary for you to understand. It is what it is.

If you get all pissy and angry, I PROMISE you there will never be good between you again. I promise.

If the roles were reversed and YOU had decided after 5 months things weren't right for you any longer, you would break it off with her and she would be the one hurt. So be realistic. It just is what it is.

1) Get over it, shake it off and move on. Your future is with another girl just waiting for you aim your attentions in her direction.

2) Stay calm and move back into her friend zone. You might have a chance at rekindling things with her later as long as you STAY a great friend to her.

Those are your only options, I think.

[talaniman]

She obviously feels there is no future, so give her what she wants, and move on.