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fenderstrummer28 · May 24, 2008, 08:31 PM

OK. I got a big one. About a year ago, I was on myspace and I was browsing through my friends' friends. Well I saw this most incredible looking girl on myspace. So I talked to her for a little bit. We went to the same school but we she really didn't seem intersted in me and seemed kind of weirded out by me. Well the ironic part was that about 6 months later, we sat next to each other in a class. And I said in my head "wow she looks familiar" and it hit me... thats her!! We never talked, just a few words exchanged. Now I'm realizing I'm falling in love with her. Every time I see her I like her more and more. I wan her soooo badly its not even funny. We don't talk at all. But I want her. And I'm afraid if I try to talk to her, she'll get freaked out... because we don't hangout at all. Any help? Please guys. I think I'm in love for the first time...

rawsushi · May 24, 2008, 08:35 PM

You need to find out what she likes to do. Hobbies, etc.

Pay attention to what she listens to, reads, etc. If you've commonalities - that is what will help.

Don't talk about yourself. Get HER to talk about herself. The more you can get her to talk about herself, or what she likes, the better your chances are.

Also, don't forget - she might be hot... but that's not indication that she's got what you need...

JoeCanada76 · May 24, 2008, 08:48 PM

This is not love.
This is a crush.
How do you handle it. Small talk. Your sitting in the same class right.
No rushing and pushing. Just baby steps. No matter how you feel you think. Coming on too strong will not help.

JBeaucaire · May 24, 2008, 11:55 PM

You can't fake your way into someone's heart. Time to man up and face her, talk to her, or just be happy liking her from afar.

There's no other way. No tricks, no magic, no manipulations. You need to be a nice, non-creepy guy talking to a nice available girl.

Let nature take its course. Don't come across like you need anything from her other than to be friends first, get closer, then take it from there.

Smooth.

talaniman · May 25, 2008, 07:05 AM

Just because you are experiencing a strong, intense attraction, for someone, it may not be love, especially since there is no bond built, or mutual acknowledgment. In other words you don't know how she feels about you, or anything else, she is a stranger, so don't get carried away by your feelings, but do talk to her, and see what, if anything develops from it. That's how you get to know a stranger.